My husband and i have great sex but we alwats start off real cheesy. Like we'd be sitten there and he'll ask me if i wanna have sex. Then we from there we just take turns lol. Its so boring sometimes. Can someone please help me with details how to start off sex more sexier. Please Help!
2006-08-17 06:29:55 · 28 answers · asked by simplegirl1659 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you both need to be receptive to each other's body language, not just verbally asking. Like take a shower together, and don't ask just start feeling and caressing him. I don't mean start rubbing on his privates right away either, just lightly run your fingers around his neck and his back, then start kissing him. And while you are kissing him start rubbing his privates. If he doesn;t get the message that you're ready to go, then I don't know what to tell you. You could plan somthing as well, but don't tell him. For example you get done eating dinner and tell him you want dessert and go down on him. The ideas of sexual bonding are endless. Hope this helps.
2006-08-17 06:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be waiting for home some nights (or even mornings) in nothing but some sexy undies....or nothing at all!!! Role playing never hurts either. I also hear packing leaving "naughty" Polaroids here and there adds some excitement. Oh and here is an idea I just got....leave post its around the house, car, etc. giving him clues to where, what and when you want to do the next "act". Also try new positions, and new places!!!
2006-08-17 06:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by kmsgameboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you go into your room and get an outfit on or if you dont have any then go bye some then you come out and get into character like if your a school girl tell him that youve been nauty and need to be punished or anything ya want its different or you can go to a store and bye sex dice so what you roll is what y ahave to do they got all kinds of fun games out there good luck to ya hope i helped out
2006-08-17 06:42:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you suggest taking a shower together or something and have fun soaping up? It doesn't have to be cheesy, sometimes you have to initiate, um also try doing stript ease or something doesn't have to be crazy stripper style just a little bit at a time, come on you can think of something!
2006-08-17 06:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try setting the mood with a nice bubble bath together or some music like Marvin Gaye's songs "Let's get it on" and "Sexual Healing" or even role playing.
2006-08-17 06:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when u go to bed go to the bath room act like u r changeing into your PJs and put on some sexy laungrie and come out in a pose mode lol that should heat things up
2006-08-17 06:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by Holly C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my word! asking to have sex before actually having sex? how unromatic is that??? girl, you need use your "horniness" (such a funny made up word hehe) and just sort of touch him in "those" places, groping is good, play wrestle, or tickle him... then you land a hard, deep kiss on his mouth and go from there... kissing is such a big turn on, at least for me. no need for words until, well... ya know.... :)
2006-08-17 06:39:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOMEN do some thing sexy like take of your clothing but slow make him hipper tell him when ya doing it to go fast and hard to at the same time u to
2006-08-17 06:35:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look at him in a sexy way an then step towards him and kiss him and then keep doing it...then u,ll do the rest automatically. but don,t reach towards penis too quickly be cause i hate it eprsonelly.. at leastu should wait for ten fifteen minutes to reaach that point....good luck
2006-08-17 06:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is the same way so i just told him that he makes me feel like sex is a chore and i need to have some foreplay back in the mix and so far so good
2006-08-17 06:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by faithfullyyours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋