I have a question I would like for a male who's experienced an affair to answer. I have been married for quite some time and recently had an affair. I did not go out on purpose to have this affair. I felt terrible and ashamed for having the affair as I still loved my husband. Some people find this hard to believe, but until you experience the lonliness in a marriage you won't know. I have voiced my concerns about us growing apart and how important is to spend time with our kids to my husband for many, many years only to have it basically ignored. The affair was over months ago and we have been to counseling and everything is going well now. We have established better communication and love for each other. Throughout this ordeal, he has remained extremely calm. My question is do you think he has has affair, which is why he remains so calm? He denies ever having an affair, but I'm perplexed at his emotional calm. I just want a man's perspective on my husband's state of mind.
2006-08-17
06:07:28
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Grits
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Marriage & Divorce