I am good friends with this one girl. Everytime we talk, we get into deep conversations. Also, the conversations flow so well that I bet they would go on forever if they weren't stopped. I am just wondering the following from a girl's perspective. If you had a guy friend that you felt really comfortable around and you trusted very much and you told him many secrets that told no one else, would you want a relationship with that guy? Like if he asked you on a date, would you most likely accept?
2006-08-17 06:08:19 · 14 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would. But that might because that's how it is with me and best guy friend.
2006-08-17 06:13:40 · answer #1 · answered by Time goes by 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends. She may feel like she doesn't want to lose you as a friend. Think of it this way, if you dated and broke up, your friendship would not be the same. You can say that it would be the same, but in all reality, it may be a bit awkward and you probably wouldn't have the same kind of conversations. Now, if you want to risk that, then go ask her out. If you're rejected, just drop it and continue to be her friend. If I were you though, I'd ask her out before someone else finds out how awesome she is and asks her out first.
2006-08-17 06:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends... if she likes you as just a friend, then chances for the two of you being in a relationship are really small. But if she likes you as a guy too, then she would most definitely accept the invitation to a date. That's the way I would do it.
2006-08-17 06:14:12 · answer #3 · answered by miraob86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going on a date maybe will complicate the friendship u guys have together. Maybe she does not see you that way, your someone she can be open with an express herself. but there's nothing wrong with asking. Just go out as friends then see where it takes u from there
2006-08-17 06:20:06 · answer #4 · answered by Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they always say to marry your BEST friend so I don't see why not. I know your just wanting an relationship right now but I would test the waters first and see if thats what she wants. Maybe do alittle flirting here and there and see how she responds. Good luck!
2006-08-17 06:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your walking a tight rope here. Personally, I have had great platonic relationships with guys that I felt totally comfortable with and had great convos with..but that was it. I didn't want to take it there and if I did I did take it there.
I say you should ask her...but be prepared to hear, "We are friends and I don't want to ruin our relationship". She might say yes though because you have that great foundation.
2006-08-17 06:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would date a guy that I was like that with. That's how I think a relationship truley should be. Yo should be able to talk to the other person and tell them thing that you wouldn't ever dream about telling another person.
2006-08-17 06:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really depends if there is chemistry there for more... she may think of you as just a very close friend.
Look for signs of attraction, does she talk about other guys to you? does she touch you a lot? make jokes about you two hooking up? ect...
If things look like she feels the chemistry ask her, most girls like being friends first.
2006-08-17 06:14:05 · answer #8 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to come out and ask if she'd like to go on a real date or would like to just be friends.
2006-08-17 06:14:09 · answer #9 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, life and love are about taking risk and you will never know how incredible it could be with this girl if you don't take a chance and ask her out. you could be missing out on the one who is right for you.
2006-08-17 06:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋