my boyfriend i think he is cheating on me with my friend how can i tell if he is?? my friend keeps asking about him and what picture i showed him why should she care??? HE IS MY BOYFRIEND OLNY IF SHE DID SOMETHING WRONG THEN SHE SHOULD BE MAD OR CARE RIGHT?
2006-08-17 06:03:55 · 6 answers · asked by Kristy h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i asked him if he knew hwer he sounded like he does but i am noty sure i bet he might not
2006-08-17 06:04:45 · update #1
MY BF LIVES IN FOND DU LAC AND I LIVE IN OSHKOSH
2006-08-17 06:17:27 · update #2
Confront him with the problem and tell him that it is over because you are suspecting this because of your friend and tell him what is going on and I would ditch her too because no friend of mine would mess around with my man and I wouldn't do that to any of my friends!
2006-08-17 06:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of girls accuse there boyfriends of cheating because its a stereo-type that guys face. All boys don't cheat. Lets assume your boyfriend is cheating on you.
Just because your friend is interested doesn't mean you should worry but if your boyfriend is "hanging with his friends" all the time you might need to worry. Find a time when he is "hanging with his friends" and call your friend up and ask her if she wants to hang out, give it a good 10min or so just to make it not look obvious. If your friend cannot hang out with you, then you might want to become more suspicious.
A good way to settle this is to ask him to prove that he isn't cheating on you because if he cared for you he would try to prove himself, if he is lazy about proving it, say a simple excuse, that should raise some flags.
Another big thing to remember don't be in his business all the time asking him where he is going and what he is doing.
Watch for excuses, ones that don't exactly match up and see if you can catch him in a lie.
2006-08-17 13:15:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I had a friend who cheatin on this girl who my dearest frined and when he cheated on her I was pissed. How I found out was the girl he like more than his girlfriend was when they was together they looked at each other and got close to one another and it got bad so i told my friend about she was heart broken and so now I am going out with her and I promised her I would take care of her and be there for her when ever she wanted me.
2006-08-17 13:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blah, dont go spying on him, or following him around, you get caught, and he's not cheating on you, BIG problems... My ex use to do that to me, and I wasn't cheating on her, but it made problems a lot larger because she followed me. It won't hurt to ask, then watch him, his eyes, his actions, his facial muscle movements. If you know him well enough to date him, you should be able to tell if/when he's lying. If ya can't Ill come tell you if he is or not. Keys to cheating:
Sex lessens rapidly
Spends less time with you
Finds reasons to leave
Has better things to do than spend time on the phone w/ u
Gets edgy when the other girl is around
Avoids eye contact with her unless he thinks your not looking
Just look for the guilt.
2006-08-17 13:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring your friend and your b/f for a picnic then tell them that u have to go to the car to get something but make sure u park the car were u can see them and if you see him cheating on u stand up to him and say it over ***** and then go to yo frine d and smack her lol
2006-08-17 13:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
right, ask him who is she to him. then keep on the look out , and if u have to go to extremes, tell him that you;ve gotta go to work and really you don't and spy on him, make sure it's a day were they are exposed to eachother again good luck girl.
2006-08-17 13:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by jennifer w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋