what does that mean?
2006-08-17 06:10:13 · 19 answers · asked by omarionsgirl1983 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means he thinks you think too much about issues when you don't need to. He is saying you are causing yourself unneccasary worry about stuff you should just be cool about. He is saying you need to dig deep into things which are better left at a shallow depth. He is saying you talk too much and worry to much when you should simply be enjoying life more, be more carefree and just let your hair down. He is saying you are booring him to tears with all this talk, talk, talk, and he is tired of hearing it. He is saying this to help you out. He is saying this to get you to shush up. He is saying you are making life harder than it needs to be.
He is saying many things, or nothing at all. Listen honey, ask him what he means. It could be one, some, all or none of the above, or other things I did not even write down. Only he can tell you what he actually meant when he said this. Is he a really good friend who has your best interests at heart? If so then he is trying to help you. If he is not a really good friend then he had no right making that statement as he does not know you well enough to make such a judgement, and make no mistake this is a judgement. It being a judgement does not automatically mean it is a negitive judgement. Maybe over analyzing is a good thing in h is opinion.
Like I said before, just come out and ask him what he meant. But I think he meant you spend too much time thinking about and picking apart events in your life and it is not good for you or any relationship you are in. By having to ask here what it means you are analyzing his statement. Try just asking direct questions aobut things you think about instead of worrying about what this meant or that meant. Just ask and get an answer, which will cut down on how much analyzing you need to do.
We women tend to over analyze. It is not something just you do, most women tend to do this. We are always wondering about the state of our relationship. How certain events affect our lives or may affect our lives or affect others lives who we love and care for. Women tend to worry more than men. So, don't worry so much if you do over analyze, just realize men don't like this much and refrain from doing so wiht them. This is what girl friends are for.
Good luck and much happiness in life always. Blessed Be.
2006-08-17 06:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by Serenity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm told this often too. /: More synonyms for analyze would be to study and consider. He's basically telling you that you think too much and too hard about topics / problems.
Have you ever made a mistake working on something and you toss and turn worrying about it and absolutely HAD to fix it? Have you ever had a crush and watched for every sign he gives out and try to figure out if he likes you? These things are common over-analyzing problems.
:)
2006-08-17 06:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by Slippers 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women do this. Some more than others. But we are the emotional keepers of the relationship. We check to see how a guy is doing, if what we're doing is 'normal'...the list goes on.
Most men have two gauges
1. The relationship is working
2. The relationship isn't working.
Anything else they think is over analyzing.
2006-08-17 06:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by weddrev 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are too careful. Too reserved. You think everyone has a motive. You think too much. You can't just make a big decision in one second, you have to think about it first. Think about the consequences. My guy friend said the same thing when I woudln't sleep with my ex who was also his friend. He told me that I analyze things too much and I screwed up big time. But I was not ready to have sex yet and my ex shouldn't have tried to force me. I dumped him on the spot.
Its nothing bad. Its just that you're a thinker. More cautious. I've learned to love being that way. I don't have to listen to anyone!
2006-08-17 06:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Let me ask you this. Do you ask yourself, think up a lot of good/mostly bad scenarios when your think of someone or something and do that multiple times? Then yes you analyze to much.
2006-08-17 06:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by omvg1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What i'm getting from it is that he's a superb, open, friendly guy that doesn't strategies the undeniable fact that he's straight away and you're gay. he's actual into being your buddy, yet he's in all probability swayable in his sexual options. Like, he's straight away, yet once you have been to hit on him, he'd in all probability be curious. some area of him would even decide to test.
2016-10-02 05:04:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably means that he thinks you read too much into things. Possibly about guys liking you?
2006-08-17 06:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by bored_at_work 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to read into everything that someone says or does. My ex was like this and he thought that every move I made I was saying something to him by it and it would always be negative and it would start a lot of arguments between us and I got really tired of it that is why we aren't together!
2006-08-17 06:16:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You think to much. You put to much thought in something that don't need it. If I were you I would ask some of my friends do I do that and then I will check myself.
2006-08-17 06:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by Apple 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have that problem too. I try to figure out every little possibility to every little thing that could happen. It annoys me sometimes that I do this.
2006-08-17 06:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by Adam B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋