Family & Relationships - 13 August 2006

Ok so i was dating this guy for 4 yrs, totally in love and then it became a long distance relationship, he cheated and admitted to it(was not caught) he slept with his sisters best friend who knew me , knew we were in love and together and still slept with him, to make a long story short I left him.. He begged me to keep him and even though It hurt I couldnt so he went to the next easy piece of *** and is now i guess in a relationship with her, but we are still in love and he still calls me and sleeps with me and tells me he cant love without me and to take him back.. Im faced with this horrible feeling that I'm doing exactly what I hate this girl for doing but at the same time I want her to feel what I felt..(inside i know i can have him back when i want...but it kinda feels good to make him feel he can almost have me but ****** up and I want her to feel what I felt, and I want her to know what goes around comes around and the ***** karma caught up, is this wrong?

2006-08-13 06:14:30 · 21 answers · asked by haydeej20032000 1 in Singles & Dating

she is not required to work

2006-08-13 06:13:51 · 8 answers · asked by randy p 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just broke up with my boyfriend last night, and we had gone out for about six months. It seems like I cannot go ten minutes without him crossing my mind. He was my first love, and I just want to get him off of my mind. It is hard because heis friends with so many of my friends, so it is hard to avoid him. He says the whole talking as friends is stupid, so I'm never going to get to talk to him ever again in my life, which is sort of depressing. But I just would like to know some ways to get my mind off of him, and if any of you have had to go through this and how you coped?

2006-08-13 06:13:44 · 28 answers · asked by aLyxoxo 3 in Singles & Dating

Do you like where you are?
What's a positive about it, and what's a negative?

2006-08-13 06:13:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is this just a sexual fetish or signs of something psychologically wrong with me?

2006-08-13 06:12:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so my boyfriend has this girl he use to date and he helped raise her son (not his only hers) and they broke up now he's with me. Now she wants me to be her friend. She's married now with another baby but i think she still wants my boyfriend back. AND to add to all that she told me she's cheating on her husband with a boy we all know. What do I do?

2006-08-13 06:11:55 · 11 answers · asked by gismo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-13 06:11:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-08-13 06:11:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a new guy friend and his birthday is coming up in September. We have been dating for a little over a month and i don't know what to get him for his birthday. I want it to be sweet and special but not over the top, or typical like boxers or cologne.

2006-08-13 06:11:13 · 17 answers · asked by Tamara 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband cam to me two weeks ago, and claimed he didn't want to be married anymore. We have two children, and I have been a stay at home mom for four years.( This was a mutual decision.) I am trying to leave out my emotions when we do communicate, but they are all over my face. I cannot hide. He has been gone for two weeks now, and there has been no change. I have NO where to go for shelter, and he is using this against me when the kids come into conversation. Is there anyone on my side? Is there anyone out there that puts kids and moms first? I feel so betrayed and judged by something I thought we both agreed on. He is a truck driver and is gone most of the time anyway. I'm sure this brings many oppurtunities, but I can't believe someone would be so mean and cruel. Please help me!

2006-08-13 06:10:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just the way i loock at life

2006-08-13 06:10:08 · 10 answers · asked by moondust 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you know of any free online chat services when i can interact with local single girls and people chatting in there are actually real and wanna meet in person.?

2006-08-13 06:09:58 · 9 answers · asked by Ricky P 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-13 06:08:41 · 27 answers · asked by suzan 1 in Singles & Dating

The psychologist said I should have primary custody and the guardian ad litem is for him. What are my chances for becoming primary custodian. I am very afraid that he may get it. He's a great talker and manipulater, I'm not. He has money, and I no longer have any. Please help........

2006-08-13 06:08:38 · 11 answers · asked by kanneb29 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-13 06:08:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-08-13 06:07:22 · 25 answers · asked by phil 1 in Friends

my huband and i have not meet each other for last 20 days as i was traveling abroad and after he is traveling abroad right so i am very missing but i want to get out of this feeing and enjoy what do i do

2006-08-13 06:07:04 · 12 answers · asked by vandana m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-13 06:07:00 · 5 answers · asked by choddy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I just recently got my divorce finalized (thank god) and in the divorce papers one of the agreements was that she is to take her name back. We dont have any kids, and she is still using my last name, how can I make her take her name back and quit using mine.

2006-08-13 06:05:55 · 20 answers · asked by Bam Bam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I want answers to how to fit in with the right crowds. I dont want to be told, "be yourself", becasue from experience of one year in grade 9, it doesnt work. I really want to fit in with crowds like the joks or whatever. BUt for that, I need to know some things.

I need to know how to talk to people and how to react to different situations. I need to know how to dress, what clothes to wear, what shoes to wear. How should my hair look. What clubs I should join and all that stuff. What my body should be like, Adverage, Physially well, or if it matters or not. And all this.

Im trying to go for a new me this year, Im even switching schools to start over. Please give me the full details on a cool lifestyle in highschool.

2006-08-13 06:04:58 · 22 answers · asked by captain_crunch57 1 in Friends

This is my husbands first girlfriend ever, first love too. God im raging inside with jealousy but i shouldn't .. When they see each other they hug and i swear sometimes i feel that he still has a thing for her. And i have wacko dreams about them too... i think my mind is playing me. But she's in the hospital about to have a baby and he's been wanting to go see her but wants me to go with him. I don't know... im jealous of course but im sure there's nothing going on between them ( I hope ) But last time they saw each other they hugged and he rested his head with hers ... like in a really loving and tender way... something he never does with me !!! HELP !!!!!!!!!!!

2006-08-13 06:03:39 · 23 answers · asked by sourgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hypotheically, would any girl like 5'10"+ want to go out with a guy who was 24 and 5'9"?

2006-08-13 06:03:14 · 12 answers · asked by navigne 2 in Singles & Dating

if you do like make up do you like them even when you make love

2006-08-13 06:02:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

you both want to try to make it work but how do you..i just cry everynight..except after we both said we wanted to be together..but then i have thoughts of what now..since we spend everynight together when he's here with me..but now he'll be gone..and when he tells me he thinks what now too..it makes it hard to think we can make it work

2006-08-13 06:01:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-13 06:01:17 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

and apparently don't wnat to know anything about them

2006-08-13 05:58:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-13 05:57:42 · 11 answers · asked by boochie714 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-13 05:56:32 · 12 answers · asked by Jason Linde 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What causes your eyes to rolls back when having sex.

2006-08-13 05:55:27 · 11 answers · asked by hope 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a supervsior and filed a complaint for possible sexual harrasment and was demoted once the employee cried wolf...i followed all of the procedure in my employee handbook and was retaliated against by the manager because he was embarrased..is this legal?!?!?!

2006-08-13 05:54:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships