I just recently got my divorce finalized (thank god) and in the divorce papers one of the agreements was that she is to take her name back. We dont have any kids, and she is still using my last name, how can I make her take her name back and quit using mine.
2006-08-13 06:05:55 · 20 answers · asked by Bam Bam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try Banging her sexually again like when you first met. maybe that will knock some sense in the both of you
2006-08-16 05:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might not be over the effects of it being over yet, and it may take some time. After my divorce, even though I was very gald to be out of it, and could not wait to get rid of his name, my drivers license was about to expire in a few months, and I did not want to have to spend the extra money to get it changed and then in a few months down the road have to spend more money to get it renewed. I would give her a few months, and then if she still uses it, talk to her and tell her that it is not her name any more, and to not use it.
2006-08-13 06:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the divorce decree requires her to return to her maiden name, call your lawyer and find out the time frame for the change.
2006-08-13 06:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her back to court for violating the divorce agreement.
2006-08-13 06:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You married her for better or for worse and right now you are in the worse part. When you married her you GAVE her your name. I realize that it is resolved in the divorce decree but what do the laws of your state say about legal names?
2006-08-13 06:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by pseansum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am divorced too but I still use my ex husbands last name. I will always be my daddy's child but my handwriting looks better with my married name. What do you care what name she uses? Get on with your life and leave her alone. Sounds like you still want her. What do you mean using yours. Mind your ******* business, and stop keeping tabs on her.
2006-08-13 06:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jacks036 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek legal help. She is not fulfilling one of the stipulations of the divorce. But, why is it such a big deal? You know you are divorced, and so does she. If it is worth legal fees, then hire an attorney.
2006-08-13 06:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y did u divorce? was it her or you coz i myself am divorced and re married and believe u and me as soon as i kicked the wife beater out i went straight back to my maiden name. now if it is an agreement then you can take her back to court and let them sort it but may be the threat of it will make her like wat u wud call an eye opener i hope it helps u and better luck in you new life. x
i just thought my friend watch she don't get a lot of det in your surname or you might end up paying for it act quickly ok. x
i would just like to say to all the comments were people are say mind ya neb and get on with your life that HERE that is wat he is trying to do its her that is trying to keep tabs on him as she has so much infor on him she could do out. listen mate sort it as quickly as you can for yourself ok .x
2006-08-13 06:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by jojo c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on the state where you live you can go to the courthouse and file a contempt of court complaint or a phone call to your lawyer will work
2006-08-14 04:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by Annie R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have no say so. unless she wants to use her maiden name and you have to do it through the courts. you married her and she was good enough then. just cause you arent together dont change the fact that you were married at one time.
2006-08-13 06:51:09 · answer #10 · answered by grniz07 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋