Hey been with my hubby for over 2 years now but only living together since last winter. When we were dating it was long distance so it was a couple weeks most of the time between visits. During those visits he was all over me and very into sex. Now that we have lived together for a bit its slacked off, way off.
I mean he will come around most of the time if I hit on him and when we do its great but I miss that passion we had. I have talked to him about this issue, in tears a few times. He feels bad about it and says he will work on starting things more often. He says nothing has changed with him and I am as sexy to him as always have been.
I have done the rose petals on the bed thing and that was great but can't do that everynight. I have bought toys to spice it up, lingere all the things I could think of. It always works for that night but then it goes back to quick, same position before bed in the dark again. It almost feels like if I didn't come on to him, we wouldn't at all.
2006-08-13
10:01:33
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kimnwi
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Marriage & Divorce