and...we had dated for a year...and i never really got over him. everytime im with him...we both cant help but want to kiss and touch each other...i love him holding me...i love him...he's the only person i actually do love...
he treats me like...a princess...he's the most amazing person in the world. i love jsut laying there with him...
but..if i do mess around with him...as in kissing, fingering, and hand jobs and what...is that right.?? if we arent dating??
2006-08-13 09:58:25 · 14 answers · asked by BWW 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no i dont have a fu*king lonely life.
and...no i dont go from one guy to another.
this the only guy i've gotten serious with...tahnk you very much.
2006-08-13 10:05:10 · update #1
and yes i feel some waht uncomfortable doing things with him...becuz we arent technically together.
but he has told me...he is completely dedicated to me...and i kno he isnt lying.
if he wasnt dedicated to me...he would have already forgotten about me..and moved on...
2006-08-13 10:10:08 · update #2
I know what your saying I've been there and done that you know in my eyes foolin around is all good but if you want him to want you as more then just play time Girl you need to tell him that you dont want no friends and benefits cause in the end your the only one that's gonna hurt...
I told my ex either he's wit me or he's not you know dont play his game cause he knows he has you wrapped round his finger and you aint goin no where...
So To your question yes and no
2006-08-13 10:06:26 · answer #1 · answered by lovergirl86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are attached to someone else at the moment yes. If he is attached to somebody then yes. You seem uncomfortable with the fact that you're doing a lot of stuff without a commitment. Does he want to be back together like you? Get some communication about how you feel through to him. If you want to continue doing physical stuff even though he doesn't want more that's your choice but it's a bad idea. Kissing is fine but personally I wouldn't go any further than that with a ex. You need to figure out what he wants and what you want then go from there. If you want this to go somewhere, then talking about getting back together is necessary.
2006-08-13 10:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have a physical thing going, but no verbalized commitment. Do you value yourself? That is the better question, because a guy will have sex where he can get it, and he obviously doesn't want anything serious with you. So not a whole lot I can say except you reap what you sow..and it looks like a very lonely life for you...from one matress to another...without a substantial commitement in your life. That is pretty sad.
2006-08-13 10:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by Marilyn C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like me and my ex. We are the same way your and your ex are, when together...but...we're not together either. Nor really looking to make a relationship work b/c we know one won't right now. Of course, I haven't seen him in a year though, but we talk as if everything is the same. Confusing stuff.
2006-08-13 10:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your dating right now or he's dating someone else, but if not, I don't see anything wrong with it. If you are or if he is, break up with him because cheating is one of the worst things you can do to a person.
2006-08-13 10:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by Grace B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're in love. It depends what you both want from this, but just make sure you dont end up hurt. Why don't you just date again??
2006-08-13 10:04:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming neither of you are married then no...it's not wrong. Course, you need to remember why you broke up to begin with and decide if that problem still exists.
2006-08-13 10:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by purpleflowers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! i don't know how old you are but hopefully your old enough- there is nothing wrong with realizing you really do miss him and you should be together. sometimes it takes a break up for you to realize your true feelings
2006-08-13 10:05:44 · answer #8 · answered by maryoke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know about that if u love him that much u guys should get serius cause u never know if he's just usin u im just sayin cause guys are weird they think in dirty ways so make sure hes not playin u
2006-08-13 10:04:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya I no what you mean, I really miss my ex to, she was the most amasing person I have ever met
2006-08-13 10:03:49 · answer #10 · answered by SHINE 071371 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋