Everyone has that "Gene", when you're younger, you are usually not interested in either sex. Over time, through experience, and nature, you decide what you like. Generally you will go with the opposite sex, like the law of nature, opposites attract. But others will go with the same sex, that is what they are more comfortable with, and that is what they find apealing.
But, never mind, all men will find other men "good looking" and all females, will think otehr women are "sexy". This does not make them gay or bi. It's just admiring the same sex, if you for example, get a hard on, while looking at a man, and thinking about touching him, Then there is a chance you might be gay/bi. BUT, sometimes, it's the idea of being controlled, by someone stronger or bigger than you. Or the Idea of controlling someone weaker or smaller than you, and not actually weither it is or not a man or woman. Again, it's in the nature, to not care where you get your satisfaction from.
Also, Women for example, are more commonly known, to enjoy men having sex with women, rather than just standing arounr, or having man sex. Why? Because it feeds the fantasy of being or wanting to be that woman, or being able to watch the intimacy. Even if she "enjoys" watching the female and enjoys her body. Women's body are more curvy, and tend to draw more attention, even artists, who are not bi or gay, would rather draw female figures, because they have a better flow, than a blocky male. Most artists render femanine males, than a musle man.
It's all in how you percieve bisexual. Most straight people assume Women who are bi, with another women, is more like assisted masterbation, than a relationship, while men who are bi, purely enjoy anal sex. but rather be with a straight person. When that is NOT the case...
You can enjoy someone of the same sex, and not have sex with them, but still love them as much as a straight person is with another straight person. Being bi Sexual means you are attracted to both sexes, physically and emotionally, in some state of mind.
So in some way, we could be all bi, unless you have no best friends.
Because in reality, your best friend, is your closest "companion" that you may or may not be having sex with. ;)
2006-08-13 10:06:11
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answered by anjui63 4
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No, I don't think it is so simple to define people's sexuality.
It is said that we are all somewhere on a continuum (line) between 100% Homosexual (one pole) and 100% Hetrosexual (opposite pole), with Bisexuality somewhere at 50/50. So every person is leaning towards one side or the other. I find it fascinating.
2006-08-13 09:54:49
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answered by MeerKatje 3
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no, I'm definitely not bisexual. This whole bisexual thing seems to be mainly an e-phenomenon. I swear, I have never "met" as many bisexual people as I have online. It seems like it's the trendy thing to claim.
2006-08-13 09:54:00
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answered by Adrienne 3
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I think that we are all born bisexual, but our gender preference depends on our reactions to society’s standards of what is a male trait and a female trait. For example, as soon as you have brought home your baby boy, you’re going to give him a nice blue blanket—right then, he has already suffered from cultural pressures. I hope this makes sense- if it doesn’t feel free to IM me.
2006-08-13 10:17:15
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answered by Strives to be Something 3
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Read the spring issue of Scientific American Mind. They state that if we did not have social pressure to form relationships with the opposite sex, the majority of people would fall into the bi-sexual area, with the minorities being heterosexuality and homosexuality. We would choose freely according to honest attraction.
Go to a library and look for the spring issue, if you would like to read the whole article.
2006-08-13 09:57:17
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answered by mitch 6
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All people have both feminine and masculine aspects, but the proportion of each varies from person to person and it doesn't mean that all people are bisexual (not that there's anything wrong with that).
2006-08-13 09:55:01
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answered by just me 5
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i would have to correct you and say are we all gay / lesbian?
for example , while men are watching porn would you rather prefer a thick hard long , penis or a 2 1/2 penis
giving the woman more pleasure
women however touch others breasts to see their implants
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men slap eachothers behinds at the end of a good football game ( highschool foot ball )
now every one who said no way to quick re- think it and then email me at julie01379@yahoo.com
2006-08-13 09:59:21
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answered by Anonymous
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i think most have gay tendensies but some are too scared to try the same sex however my attitude is do not knock it till you've trie dit so i tried girl on girl and i liked it however i am in love with a guy two children and class myself as straight in other words you are what you say you are
2006-08-13 10:10:19
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answered by Anonymous
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80 percent of everybody is bisexual. 10 percent are gay. and 10 percent are strait.
2006-08-13 09:57:50
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answered by Anonymous
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Nope.
2006-08-13 09:53:28
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answered by Private Account 5
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