I am a junior and i currently have a boyfriend. Hes a really nice guy but i always find myself not wanting to hangout with him. Like every time he asks me i wont hangout with him unless thre are other people there. I dont know why, im pretty sure i trust him but i dont know i always want other people besides each other there. Can anyone help me?
2006-08-13 10:02:14 · 11 answers · asked by rebekah u 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh no problem i was like that too. I always wanted some comfort of friends so things wouldnt be awkard. Well u just have to try hanging out with him by himself go to like a public place so there will be people around and u wont feel so awkard. If u really like him u will give him a chance.
2006-08-13 10:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you might be uncomfortable and insecure about making conversation with him when you're alone. Are you afraid you won't be able to find something to talk about? I'll bet he finds you a lot more interesting than you think you are. Obviously, or he wouldn't be your boyfriend! Don't worry too much about it, as you spend more time with each other you'll get more comfortable about spending time alone, plus you don't have to if you don't want to. Good luck!
2006-08-13 17:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by telaine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just like him as a friend and not so much a boyfriend. You like to hang out with him, but you dont feel that "love" connection like you want to..Sounds like you are more close as friends and hanging out as a group then being alone. So stick with that, take a break from being boyfriend and girlfriend and see what happens.
good luck,
Kerri
2006-08-13 17:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by Dolphin Babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o thats no biggie ur jus having trust issues but i think thats ok i think u shld give a shot jus u n him and c how u like it the 1st time i went wit my bf it wus so much fun now i dnt rlly want my friend around so hey go 4 it!
2006-08-13 17:06:40 · answer #4 · answered by emily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him not to do anything the both of you dont want if he pushs to far tell him and hell stop im shure he wont go overboard you should talk to hi about it other wise your kinda hidin it thats not good
2006-08-13 17:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by jjj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only be with someone if you really want to spend QUALITY time together. So just tell him you want to be friends. If he's really that nice, he will understand.
2006-08-13 17:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by Grace B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that was also my problem too i had a bf and he was realy nice and all btu i neva wanted to hang out with him for some reason.....so i gues we are those type of ppl who like it when ppl are watching=)
2006-08-13 17:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just being social!!! you like other people and like to hang out with them! if that isnt the problem, talk to him see if he feel shte same way
2006-08-13 17:06:20 · answer #8 · answered by teehee311 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ONCE YOU START TALKING TO YOUR FEIENDS ABOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS....YOU KNOW IT'S OVER.
FIND A RELATIONSHIP YOU FEEL LIKE BRAGGING TO YOUR FRIENDS ABOUT.
ANYTHING ELSE IS A WASTE OF TIME.....
2006-08-13 17:09:18 · answer #9 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happenes to everyone... you just dont wanna risk it.... make sure you dont bring liek another guy or anyhitng make sure its a CLOSE friend
2006-08-13 17:06:46 · answer #10 · answered by yellbell005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋