I have 3 children from my boyfriend,we were seperated for about 1 year while i was incarsarated,he had a girlfriend and they now have a baby we have been together for 15 years his family accept her more than me and i can not deal with it i have tried but 2 xmases ago he gave me an engagement ring and he now says we are but he says why?what will it matter
2006-08-13 09:57:54 · 8 answers · asked by paula h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
MY CHILDREN DO NOT LIVE WITH ME THEY LIVE WITH HIS MOTHER IN BAKERSFIELD,THEY WENT ON SUMMER VACATION AND THEN SHE LIED TO THE COURT SAYING I OR THE FATHER HER SON COULD NOT BE FOUND I HAVE BEEN OUT SINCE 2003 MY CHILDREN HAVE A STABLE LIFE I JUST WISH I COULD HAVE THEM BACK.
HE WAS IN PRISON FOR A YEAR AND I DID NOT CHEAT ON HIM I ALSO DROVE 4 HOURS TO GO VISIT HIM I GOT NOT EVEN A LETTER AND THEN HE CAME TO MY MOMS AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER SINCE I WOULD HAVE GONE ON WITH MY LIFE AND LEFT HIM ALONE HE IS THE ONE WHO CAME BACK,CALLED SAID ALL THE THINGS I HAVE SO WANTED TO HEAR AND THEN NOW HAS NOT FALLOWED THROUGH WITH ANY OF THEM I FEEL LIKE I AM THE OUT SIDER AND I LOVE HIM AND WANT TO GROW OLD WITH HIM I WANT SO BAD TO CARRY HIS NAME BE HIS WIFE AND HIM MY HUSBAND.
2006-08-13 13:28:12 · update #1
Honey, get into counseling and get your life and head in order.
A good counselor will work with you to get stable, to move on from this man (its obvious he has moved on from you); and to work towards getting your children back, if all is as you indicated.
Counseling is the place for you to start.
Good luck.
2006-08-13 23:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Pichi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's not really committed to you. You deserve someone you can count on and trust, not someone that can't commit to you. Pray for the right man to come along. It may take longer than you're comfortable with, but in the end, it will be worth it to you and your children. Since he's their father, he should be a part of their lives, but that doesn't mean he has to ruin yours.
2006-08-13 17:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not get that last part did he say yes you were still engaged? What do you want to do?is the answer to your question
2006-08-13 17:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by pycosal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on. You were incarcerated (what do you expect?) and you weren't there for him or the children. He moved on with his life so why don't you move on with yours?
2006-08-13 17:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by BlueLantern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to dump this looser... three kids and he hasn't married you??? are you kidding me??? OMG you need to move away, and get a new life.... get away from him... his family... his friends, so you don't have to be bothered with it, and try to raise these kids to not make the same mistakes you are making!!
2006-08-13 17:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a baby with another woman.........get away from him. Once a cheater, always a cheater!
2006-08-13 17:01:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's time to move on?
2006-08-13 17:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by By Your Command 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, what is your question?
2006-08-13 16:59:59 · answer #8 · answered by DMBthatsme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋