my 1 y/os dad left me when i was pregnant with our child and he moved in with my sister.they got ingaged.now they broke everything off.they where together 1 1/2 years.should i try to conatct him ?hes never tried to see his daughter.never called or wrote.i just feel bad.i feel like hes missing so much.i know its his fault.how do i contact him if i do decide to?my current boyfriend is being her daddy at this piont.so do i leave it all the way it is?
2006-08-13 09:55:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hell no don't contact him unless he reaches out to you and show any interest in seeing and getting to know his child and you dont want to upset her also your ex is just plain GRIMY and your sister isn't any better they are both just plain NASTY.
2006-08-13 10:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by CaliMa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO. NO. No. The man has a legal AND moral obligation to support his child financially. Are you so wealthy you have no use for his money? Money can make your child's future easier, and better. Go to the Friend of the Court, and get child support for your child. You can put the money in the bank, and when your child is ready for college, there will be money to pay for an education, without burdening the kid with thousands in student loans. Doesn't your baby deserve that?
2006-08-13 18:38:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first does he know he has a baby from you?? If your boyfriend is being good to her why rock the boat maybe you two will marry and he can adobt her if he wanted any thing to do with your baby he would be there! also why confuse her one day when she is old enough you canj give her all the answeres to her questions just keep up on the father were he is so she will be able to contact him if she wants to
2006-08-13 17:05:43 · answer #3 · answered by paula h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u feel like this fella should b part of his daughters life then you should contact im. but if she is being cared for and trested well by ur current boyfriend y bother? let him come to you, at least ur daughter will know u cared enough
2006-08-13 17:07:20 · answer #4 · answered by ppc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should contact him if only to get child support which is his responsibility to pay
2006-08-13 16:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋