My boyfriend gets frustrated during sex because he's working so hard to get me off that I think he doesn't realize by my body language and even my words to him that he's already achieved that. Then I can tell by his reactions that he's unsure but still so determined and he gets frustrated and it generally ruins the mood. Because I actually have to eventually say something stupid like "Umm..honey yeah good job, you've already accomplished your goal, now how about letting me accomplish mine?". It's a pretty new relationship so I know we're still getting used to one another which is half the fun in a new relationship. But please help me because I've never had this problem in past relationships. Trust me I'm very vocal normally and past boyfriends have had no problem knowing exactly what I'm going through. Don't get me wrong...he's great at what he does, but I think he's a little out of tune or just not used to me or something. Any idea what the problem could be? Any advice helps. Thanks.
2006-08-11
14:26:54
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JessE
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