2006-08-11 14:18:09 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should try talking to your friends I mean sometimes friends dont know they are embarresing you they just like to mess around with you....and then when you are mad at them they will wonder why so I will just talk to them and tell them u dont like the way they are embarresing you if it contuniues well they arent very good friends then arent they and you hsould get rid of them
2006-08-11 14:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First and most important. They tease you because they are of the age group where it seems to be fun to tease. You teens will outgrow it, but it may take 10 or more years!!! Don't worry, you will outgrow it.
Second, the more they think you are bothered by what they say, they will just feed into it more. Then it becomes so that you can hardly enjoy yourself in ANY situation, let alone be comfortable around the guy.
I would call him on the phone where it can just be the two of you hopefully, and explain that you can't change your friends but you hope you are not causing HIM to feel uncomfortable. And maybe tell him that you and he can work it so that the ribbing can be for the amusement of your friends, but YOU and HIM know what a true relationship can and will be, because you can get past the silly way they act and have a relationship where you can grow and discover and learn and share. That is all a relationship at your age should be anyway. Good luck.
2006-08-11 14:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by U-man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not your friends. If they are embarassing you in front of someone they know you like. Keep your distance from them especially when you go anywhere around him.
2006-08-11 14:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by Necole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friends to stop being little assholes and let them know that the adult thing to do is not embarrass your friend in front of crush, but to talk up their wonderful qualities so you can score the guy. Unless their jealous, or they want him themselves, they will understand and change their ways.
2006-08-11 14:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by randylai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them to F*** off. If you have a chance at him, take it. Just try to talk him when your friends arent there but don't dis them in front of him or he might think you dis all your friends behind their backs and then he won't want to be your friend even. Just have fun and Good Luck!!
2006-08-11 14:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend to not be bothered by it at all. As soon as they see you're not getting embarassed around him they'll get tired of it and quit it. I've been through something similiar and it worked.
2006-08-11 14:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by untilyoucamealong04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're jealous. Inside, they really want what you have but since they don't, all they can do is try to ruin it for you.
Be happy. This is what makes life worth living.
Once you talk to the guy, your friends will have no more power to embarrass you anymore.
2006-08-11 14:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by success_2_be 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you need to do is the next time that they are around and he shows up just walk away and leave because they will do it every time or just tell them what they are doing you don't like and ask them to stop
2006-08-11 14:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Boo a fourteen year old is not a guy he's a kid. Find a hobbie till your 16.
2006-08-11 14:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find new "friends" It is just getting started, the boy/girl thing will never be easy. Don't be in a hurry, time will wait.
2006-08-11 14:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by thebushman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋