My guy friend, who is gay and I have a crush on went on vacation this week,so I haven't seen him since last friday. I've tried not to text him cause I don't want to bother him while he's on vacation.. But the thing is..i miss him! is that weird?and should I tell him I missed him? He knows that I like or "liked" him so would me telling him I missed him make him think i am flirting? or would he take it as a compliment??
2006-08-11 14:22:00 · 19 answers · asked by confusedgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No it is not weird to miss him. Him being gay really has nothing to do with you missing him. I do not think he would think you are flirting, depends on what you say, if you text him. I think he would just take it as a friend missing him. Who knows maybe he will be a switch hitter. Good luck.
2006-08-11 14:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it seem like the best guys are always gay? Dam it!! Haha
Nothing is wrong with telling him how you feel and no it's not weird. Why don't you just give him a call to find out if he's enjoying his vacation?
2006-08-19 04:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt think it'd be weird, if you all talk and see each other on a regular basis. I mean, most anyone misses someone if they don't talk to a person they are used to talking to regularly, so I think he'd take it as a compliment...that his friend cares about him and missed him while he was gone.
2006-08-11 14:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jadeba12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and tell him. U do miss him so there's nothing wrong wt that. He is a frnd after all...jst try and get over the crush u have on him. He's not going to give u the time of day, honey
2006-08-19 08:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by chikoko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you tell him you missed him when he left and talk about what he did over vacation that is what i would of done
2006-08-19 12:13:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not weird at all. When one of my friends (gay or not) goes away on vacation, I'll sometimes send them a text message. It can be something as simple as "thinkin of you, hope your having fun on your vacation"
2006-08-18 07:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a normal thing to miss your friends so he wont think that you like him still unless you say it dramatically then no he would just think that you were being nice
if you ever need any advice on anything about gay guy friends e-mail me 'cause i have one to and they can be so much fun to hang a round with.
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2006-08-11 14:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda Pearl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be a compliment and he will probably be happy that he was missed. If u dont tell him u missed him...he might think that u liked him gone.
2006-08-16 09:53:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's natural to miss someone if they are gone, so yeah, tell him if u want...but if u dont want to text him b/c u dont want to bother him then do what ur gut says...and no it isnt weird that u like him, even if he is gay...it just sucks that he wont like u back in that way...but, u never know...=)
2006-08-11 14:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by ξℓ Çђαηφσ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don't think its weird you guys are friends it seems like you got a close bond. i would tell him how you feel i hope it works out i was in the same boat but i never hear from my friend good luck
2006-08-19 12:56:57 · answer #10 · answered by monapepper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋