2006-08-11 14:22:12 · 16 answers · asked by Ashley A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well mostly you determine what happens.
A. If your friend knew you loved this guy and still dated him then you should find a new friend.
B. If you fell in love with this guy and kept it a secret maybe you should just keep it a secret but do this. write your friend a anonymous note (typed) and tell her that you care for her man and have had for a while. but you don't want to disrespect either of them or their relationship so what you're gonna do is wait and if you are free if/when they break up and a while has passed since they broke up reveal to her that you are the one that wrote the note and you'd like to try and talk to him
C. If you just fell in love with him refer to #B above and wait a while longer after/if they break up to act
D. But remember y'all girls say Chix Before Dix so don't mess up you and your girls relationship over any guy!(speaking as a guy who has the same rule with his buddies)
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2006-08-11 14:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by bigsho222 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did your friend or the guy ever know about your feelings?If your friend knew and pursued anyhow,yes i would be upset,but if she didn't know,then there is totally nothing that you can do about it at this point.If you started seeing your friends actions start leaning towards him,you should of made mention of your feelings about this guy then.Sometimes when you wait,you end up losing,but there is another way to look at this also,and that is just maybe this guy wasn't really meant for you,that the Mr.Right hasn't come your way yet.Those that are patient,good things comes their way.I believe this is what will happen to you.This guy might turn around and treat your friend badly,(not that i wish that upon her either),but it could of been you in those shoes.So things happen for a reason and if i were you i wouldn't give this another thought,just keep being her friend,cause she might need you for some reason or other for support,be happy for her no matter what her choices are in life.Remember,she is your friend and no guy should never come between long lasting friendships.That guy can come and go,but your friend is a friend for life,(suppose to be anyway).So best wishes to you and Good Luck!
2006-08-11 15:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by twjp1962 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go there, stay away. You're friend is more important then some guy. Let her have her fun and found some else to be with. Try and take your mind off of it. Good luck.
2006-08-11 14:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by Kathleen M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the key word is thought have you ever talk with your best friend about this guy did she know you were interested in him did you tell her and what if he asked her out so who is you going to be mad at him or her you need to talk with your friend good luck
2006-08-11 14:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that she isn't a good friend and you should not stay with him or be friends with her and move on and do not put luv in a relationship until you know that person is right for you or you will be go-in down the same path over and over again.
2006-08-11 14:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Sunlite/Sunrise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get over it, 'cause there can always be another guy, but only 1 best friend.
2006-08-11 14:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is exactly what happened to me!! it sucks i know...but i just found someone else! now for u it might be different....i guess it depends on how strongly u felt about him!
2006-08-11 14:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by perky770 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she a f*** b*** y she gonna do u like dat.. dat aint a friend, but dont worry same thing happend here but hey he gonna com bac 2 u
2006-08-11 14:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by LilAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats a funny story,i had that happen to me.But he came back to me,good luck
2006-08-11 14:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by monkeygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny if you typed "THOUGHT" you obviously don't feel to strongly for him anyway i would say move on
2006-08-11 14:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋