We have been dating three years. She lives in Los Angeles. She agrees we are in a relationship and that she is my girlfriend, but will never invite me to Los Angeles to go out with her group of friends (men, women, and couples - she goes out with them at least once a week). She says "her friends are her friends," not mine, and that she needs her space. I get the feeling she does not want people to know who I am or does not want them to know she has a boyfriend. It is like she is living a separate life. Also, she has a myspace site that I can't access because it is private. She is 38. I feel that if we are in a relationship, working together toward common goals as a team, she should want to make me a part of her activities to some extent, and should want to invite me to go out with her friends in her town every now and then. I would think and I would hope she would be proud to have me with her. Is my thinking backwards? Should I be suspicious? Or is her behavior normal?
2006-08-08
11:17:05
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Steve D
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