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I am 29 married. My husband and I have been spicing up our bedroom time by bring the laptop in and downloading movie clips form free movie sites. I have never watched this before and instantly noticed that there is ALLOT of A*** S E X going on in the world that I was not aware of. The question I have is this just movie stuff or do you other females out there really do like this in the suburbs between shopping and looking after the household ? If so do, is it you that initiates it towards your hubby ? If you do like it, what frequency ? Or is it a special event thing that you do once in a while to keep the enticement and interest up in husbands eyes ?

2006-08-08 11:20:06 · 27 answers · asked by sandra curious 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

27 answers

anal sex - never ewww nasty
try kinky sex, like whips handcuffs....all of those :P

try havin sex in public places where u can get caught, its risky and frisky !!

2006-08-08 11:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I swore I would never do it. And I didn't until I was in my late 20's. It is not as horrible as I thought it would be but, I don't really enjoy it. It's more of a once a year kind of treat. On the other hand... I have two sisters who very openly talk about how they prefer that style over the traditional. I think it is worth trying. I'm glad I did. Who knows... you could turn out like my sisters and wonder why you waited so long. :) But, if you're like me it won't be that great. Just try it. At least then you'll know. Good luck.

2006-08-08 18:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Most of what you see in those videos is what sells, which is generally fantasy. So just because there's a billion videos containing a certain act, doesn't mean everybody's doing it. Just means that's what sells right now. I worked in the technical portion of the industry once upon a time, and I know we sold what guys wanted to buy, not necessarily what their wives wanted to do.

People do surveys and research on this stuff all the time, and our best guess is that pretty much everyone's tried that at one point or another. As for who initiates, and how often, I can say for certainty... it depends. You just have to figure out what works for your relationship, without regard for what others are doing.

2006-08-08 18:29:51 · answer #3 · answered by Gen 3 · 0 0

Interesting question. LOL. Speaking from personal experience, it took my husband quite a while to talk me into even trying it. After he did and we tried it, it was more for him than it was for me. Something about how tight it is or something to that effect. But we only do it every once in a while to spice up the bedroom. Hope this helps if even just a little.

2006-08-08 18:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by Heather M 2 · 0 0

That depends on what it is. If it looks like fun and does not hurt, I might try it. If it looks like it hurts and is too weird for me, I would pass. Use your own judgement. What happens between you and your husband in the bedroom or wherever you choose to have relations is private. I would do it as frequently as I felt the urge. I would surprise my husband from time to time just to let him know that his sex kitten is right at home waiting for him. Either of you could initiate it. Play it by ear. On special occasions, do it big time. Dress up, role play, go for the gold...whatever floats both of your boats. Have fun and enjoy your husband. Work him over good.

2006-08-08 18:27:18 · answer #5 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0 0

I am also 29 and my boyfriend and I got the same idea from movies. I personally find that if you use a good lube ( I like the petroleum based with a desensitizer) and he goes slow then I can come that way too. It helps to loosen up with a toy or plug first too. But yes it can be just as enjoyable!!

2006-08-08 20:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by knock_turn_nal 1 · 0 0

The sex you see on porn sites and in porn films is not what people actually do in bed. A*** sex in porn is just a way to make it visually interesting. Most of the ways people "do it" in porn movies is for the camera, not for the enjoyment of the couple.

Did you notice that the men in porn tend to pull out when they come? Believe me, men don't want to do that in real life.

I suppose some people like it, some people do it now and then for spice, and some people don't do it at all.

2006-08-08 18:32:27 · answer #7 · answered by niuadolescent 4 · 0 0

Its up to every couple. I have a friend who I've known since highschool who blatantly says she would NEVER do that, still hasn't. And I have another friend who has done it and would if the guy initiated it. She doesn't ask for it. So, whatever works between you two- and if he initiates it or if you want to try it, just talk about it- or make sure you're wet and just move his 'unit' over some and slide it in.

2006-08-08 18:25:24 · answer #8 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0 0

Guys like it because it is something different to experience and with so many movies that feature this, like it is no big deal, it makes guys wonder what it is like.

For my husband, he says it feels good because it is tighter, but other than that it is no different than the other hole. For me, it is extremely uncomfortable, it feels like you are going #2 over and over with each thrust.

It also takes some planning because you want to be extra clean there, it is an uncomfortable area for a man to be around otherwise.

If you are interested in it, talk to your husband and see if it is something he may want to try. He may really want to or it may be a complete turn off, you never know until you ask. Or get drunk one night, and tell him you want him to put it in your a**. That would most definitely turn him on, guys tend to like it if you tell them what to do in bed!

Hope this has helped! Good luck!

2006-08-08 18:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by Muggle 3 · 0 0

it's all up to you, it's not for everyone that's for sure. Try it out, use lube, however I agree with the other girl that it feels like you're going #2 with every thrust. If you have a little bit of alcohol it helps to relax you a little and take the "edge" off. I don't do it often at all....on special occasion, my man is very well equipped in that area.

2006-08-08 18:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Some people actually enjoy it more than regular sex but others, only do it to spice up the bedroom and for some out of the norm excitement.

2006-08-08 18:25:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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