Family & Relationships - 4 August 2006

I have a 15 yr old daughter who is very smart, somewhat active plays softball in the high school band plays bass guitar and percussion. Seems to be a good gir. Problem is she is so backwards. She doesn't like to talk on the phone, stay with friends, have friends over, hang out with friends, or any interest in boys. She loves music, dresses goth somewhat, but doesn't wear makeup or cares how she looks most of the time. I have tried all I know at times banging my head against the wall. I had to force her to take drivers ed and to practice driving. She seems content on just being at home with us and not going to have fun and enjoy herself as a teenager. She is pretty and would be so much more if she would take an interest in herself...I don't push too hard I don't want to make her feel bad...but do you think it is depression or just too shy or what?? I was shy at that age but I was into boys and friends and all the normal stuff....help!!!! Thanks!

2006-08-04 15:12:04 · 109 answers · asked by Daisymay3 2 in Family

2006-08-04 15:10:39 · 12 answers · asked by ~bluesky~ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you have done differently?

2006-08-04 15:09:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

its ruining my life

2006-08-04 15:09:26 · 7 answers · asked by alif 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-04 15:09:09 · 23 answers · asked by stewmanchew2001 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-04 15:07:57 · 51 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm not getting married for another year yet, and i love my girlfriend to bits, but when she has had a few drinks she just not a nice person (75% of the time). We've been together 4 years and i've only realised properly that any time we really fall out is when she drinks. I have made her aware of this but it still hasn't changed her attitude after a few drink. what should I do?

2006-08-04 15:06:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-08-04 15:06:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

talking dirty? are you really doing what you say to the other person?

hmmmmm??????????????

2006-08-04 15:05:54 · 12 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Singles & Dating

If dad doesn't recognize his girl is growing up, so he tends to treat her the same as her little brother (pop her on the butt, snap the elastic of her shorts, etc.)
I don't want to imply that he is being sexual with her, It just seems she is a little to old for that, and her mother does not touch her in "those" areas. She is old enough to be very sensitive in the new-breast area, but still young. She hasn;t shown emotional discomfort as she is just goofing with dad and he with her.
Should he be approached about this and if so how.

Please only answer seriously.
Thanks

2006-08-04 15:05:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i mean to actually get to that if you're in the situation to kiss but how do you actually initiate it? or get him to initiate it-- and for a first kiss, what kind of kiss works best?

2006-08-04 15:04:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do people become hoes? and why do they do it?

2006-08-04 15:04:13 · 6 answers · asked by princess_anne_2009 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

what age do you usually have your first kiss??

2006-08-04 15:04:13 · 7 answers · asked by nic 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-04 15:03:50 · 12 answers · asked by Sweetpea 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-04 15:03:42 · 8 answers · asked by tinker_shorty07 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm curious -- have you ever passed up a "golden" opportunity to have a fling with a woman you found attractive while you were married/seriously dating someone else, but decided not to go for it? Why not? Would you have felt too guilty? Or would you have been too worried she'd find out?

Do you ever regret passing up the chance?

2006-08-04 15:03:05 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

not bother being concerned about being at a place where I'm not wanted and go and have a fun night out with the girls instead?

2006-08-04 15:02:44 · 19 answers · asked by Aussie Chick 5 in Weddings

Called me about 10 minutes ago, he's at a friends house,he was crying, said he's bleeding and by the way, he plays around alot even though he's 14. So I don't know if he's serious. What is a titty twister? I must know. Is it something..bad...??

2006-08-04 15:02:14 · 16 answers · asked by ♫MizzUnderstood♫ 3 in Family

I was terminated from my job 1 month ago. I need work clerical field my dream. Also my fiance is in prison and I know in my heart that he did not take that stuff. However, he was convicted of it because she had it appraised but did not have the items to do so. The judge accepted this. I feel because of his trouble prior is why is was convicted. We are waiting an answer on his appeal that has been 1 year waiting as of Aug 2006. He is due to release Jan 2008. I really pray that someone can help him and I or have answers.
God Bless
Terry

2006-08-04 15:02:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

please help!|
his parents know.
he told me the guys will do something to him if he stops.
he wants to stop!
he even asked me for help.
i dont even know what to tell him.
i'm scared, that's all i am!

2006-08-04 15:01:51 · 24 answers · asked by Lala 1 in Family

2006-08-04 15:00:51 · 9 answers · asked by cherryblossom 7 1 in Friends

2006-08-04 15:00:30 · 6 answers · asked by baseballfan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What comes to your mind when you read my account name?

PS i apologize if i bother anny one of u

I no i m creep.

2006-08-04 15:00:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For me and my bridesmaids while we are getting dressed- maybe something with "going to the chapel" and some other songs. just one c.d.- not a bunch of songs i have to download...

2006-08-04 15:00:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I honestly don't feel pretty, also that my parents love my sister more because she is smarter, and skinnier, and prettier, and all around better. I am the older one, yet I constantly feel inferior.

This is me:
http://i55.photobucket.com/albums/g142/BigFatPaulie12/smilessmiles.jpg

And this is her:
http://www.myspace.com/andasoulonfire


Does anyone have any suggestions?

2006-08-04 14:57:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i told him i liked him. he said that was fine but now we dont talk anymore and he ignores me like if i wasnt even there. i really wanna ask him out but im hella scared. i dont think i could stand being rejected. HELP!

2006-08-04 14:57:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...and yeah, I'm single and so would be the guy...
Additional answers for what would the date consist of and should I drive and pay would be appreciated and just might getcha the 10.
mucho gracias!

2006-08-04 14:57:26 · 7 answers · asked by answerb4midnight 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-04 14:57:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When I make-out with my boyfriend, I usually feel like carressing him near/on his genital region. He's a bit morally uptight though, and I don't want to scare him away or have him think I'm moving too fast. Any advice?

2006-08-04 14:57:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-04 14:56:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating