can someone tell me some websites that will help me overcome shyness?

Question

its ruining my life

Answer 1

I have some good news and some bad news for you...you are NOT going to overcome shyness sitting at a computer. Beleive it or not, computers are NOT people. You need to get out, mingle, get to know people. I strongly suggest you join a volunteer group. And, I am serious....put a tag on your blouse or shirt that says, "I am very shy and am trying to get over it...please help me." You will be surprised at how many people will be very friendly to you, will help you come out of your shell. You will find that people are actually very nice. Give them a chance. The very best of luck to you, shyness is a real social liability, as well as a business liability. Good luck

Answer 2

Shyness can't really be stopped unless you make it stop yourself. You can overcome your shyness. The first thing to do is to ask yourself why you are shy. Then think of how you can stop the shyness. Everyone is shy. You should not be shy that it takes over your life. People are usually shy because they are scared of other peoples opinion. You should not care about other peoples opinion. Just be yourself and people will love you for who you are.

Answer 3

I don't know of any websites. But, I used to be extremely shy to the point I couldn't even speak. If I wanted to express my feelings, I would have to write it down and give it to someone. Then on top of that, I would get taken advantage of and "stepped on" all the time. It really sucked. The only thing I can say is that recognition is the first step. The next step is itty bitty baby steps. Nodding, smiling or saying hi to someone on the street or waving/nodding at someone driving down the road. Asking a co-worker to lunch or hearing a group of co-workers going and asking if they mind if you tag along. Then progressing on to quick comments to people in the elevator about the weather or their hat or purse that's looks nice. Sometimes, its just spending time with groups of people and as their conversation progresses you might have something to add. You will find there are people who don't smile back or snub their nose at you. But, the problem is theirs, not yours. As time goes on, you'll see that the people that aren't somewhat friendly back have issues under the surface that are totally unrelated to you. It took me years of doing little things like this. But, now I talk to most people easily and when I don't, I notice that its me because I'm in a non-talking mood or am busy thinking about something else unrelated to that person.

by the way...you have taken your first baby step by getting on here and asking a question to a bunch of strangers. Good luck, you can do it. Just give it time.

Answer 4

Take acting classes. It will definitely help you overcome shyness, and you will learn how to act.

Call your local community theaters to ask for suggestions on acting schools.

Also, call the universities in your city. Ask for the Theater Department and get recommendations for acting schools.

Answer 5

Nah but here is some sound advice. Get over it. It is all in your head. Tell yourself you are the ****! And walk into that room like you own it. That is the only thing you can do is get some confidence about your self. Every one struggles with this every once in a while, not to worry, you will over come this.

Answer 6

in case you in easy words attempt to start up a communication with someone you're gentle round in a unmarried of your classes, perhaps which could style a friendship. you gained't be gentle in vast communities, yet only chatting with one man or woman can make you sense a lot less remoted. I comprehend that it may properly be undesirable continuously aggravating what all and sundry is questioning about you despite the indisputable fact that the better you communicate to human beings the better probably you're to affix a collection. Be pleasant, smiley and approciable even if you dont sense it. i comprehend this sounds tacky, yet smile like you mean it.

Answer 7

aww. =( I really don't know about that. but you should go to a chatroom or something and start talking to some people. i don't think there are sites about that. why don't u google it up or something?