I found out 2 1/2 years ago that my husband, then of 10 years, inappropriately touched my child, his step child. It happend 4 times. 3 years prior to that, he was physically abusive, but I had forgiven him and we worked past the issues. But when I discovered worse had happened, it opened up the past wounds all over again. We had seperated for almost two years but are back together. He has gone to counseling and seems like he put much effort into changing. He wants to do anything to make it better. While we were seperated, I started seeing someone else, which made him bitterly angry and revengeful. We were not divorced, but seperated. Now, back together, I am bitter and felt he guilted me into coming back to him since I was 'living in sin' after he tried making changes. How can I get past the resentment and give our marriage a fair chance for recovery, if we actually can. Please be gentle and people in this position are the best to respond to my question since they've been there. T
2006-08-02
08:47:19
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Bella
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Marriage & Divorce