after delivering my baby via c-section after 2 weeks I found out that my husband was watching porn untill 4 am in the morning I found out through the internet history in the computer and when I confronted him he said he miss sex because of the pregnency and the child birth but he never mentioned this to me before that day and he never asked me for any kind of sex before i find out about the internet porn.is there any thing wrong ??????????
2006-08-02 08:46:39 · 6 answers · asked by Yahoo User 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Only you know your husband but my experience would tell you to be prepared. We had many issues after our two kids were born. We got so wrapped up in the kids and daily life that we paid less attention and affection to our relationship.
I later found out that he had a profile on Adult Friend Finder, had been having an affair with a coworker and then found him in a hotel room with an ugly blonde. He keeps saying he's going to get counseling, that it is him not me. Yea, OK. He still lives on computer porn.
I am not trying to make you paranoid or to hurt you but you need to know that he has needs and he may look elsewhere to satisfy them at some point. I feel like I have been stabbed over and over again. It is so painful, I do not wish it on anyone.
My best advice is to take care of yourself, mentally and physically. Keep depression and exhaustion at bay - get your shape back and devote as much time as you can to your relationship. If he is getting what he needs at home, he may not need to go elsewhere.
If you do your part and he still strays, then it is his baggage - not yours.
I wish you the best of luck. God Bless.
2006-08-02 08:59:35 · answer #1 · answered by Army family. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and I have been married for 3 years and he watches porn,he use to hide it but that was what made me mad, i thought if he'd hide doing something that stupid what else would he hide, but you gotta talk to him and let him know your true feelings and thoughts on the issue. My hubby didn't want nutin to do with me after the baby, he said watching a life come out of me was a little over bearing. But he got over it like 2 months later.. GOOD LUCK, and if you all are truly in love why question weather or not he will cheat on you in the future, enjoy right now and deal with the punches as they roll!!
2006-08-02 09:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by sarah_48180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, honey, if he's not getting it from you, he's going to go somewhere. He might be a porn addict and need some counseling. I'd say you both need counseling especially since you're not communicating your needs and feel the need to check up on him on the computer. Something is wrong. You might just be pushing him into another womans arms if you keep accusing him of cheating. Get some counseling for your families sake.
2006-08-02 08:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably didn't want to rush you into having sex when your not ready, so he's doing the next best thing. It's only porn, he has his needs that you can't take care of at the moment so he's taking care of it himself. Id rather have my hubby watch porn then to go out and cheat. When your able and ready for intimacy again, I'm sure he'll stop.
2006-08-02 08:59:11 · answer #4 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a man, its normal when women are pregnant and after birth and how the hell do we know if hes going to cheat but 9 out of 10 yes he will that's what men do
2006-08-02 08:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he simply didn't want to pressure you when you already had so much going on with yourself . he didn't cheat on you at all .
2006-08-02 09:01:02 · answer #6 · answered by CHUPATHINGY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋