his brother always talks about me behind my back because he is a ***** he was talking about me to his grandmother and everyone I know says Im being petty I dont think so he can get off his stank *** and make his own food just dont touch my ****
2006-08-02 08:52:53 · 18 answers · asked by kia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hahah no I wouldn't cook for someoe I didn't like either. You aren't his girl so who cares? If he complains, just spit in his plate, or drop his food, and put it back on there so you get a good laugh when he eats it.
2006-08-02 08:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by VL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way to a man's heart is his tummy.... :-0
You have your reasons not to cook for him or even take care of him, BUT, life is never easy, and in-laws-to-be are not an easy task. The question now arises DO YOU WANT THEM TO LOVE YOU. If yes, then swallow your pride and make him shy by giving him a mother or a sister which he never had or be one he cant really decide anything... he seeks attention from you... thats why you are always running in his mind.... Give love and respect and you ll get same in return, give hatred and it will just grow more and more
2006-08-02 15:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by too_unconditional 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why doesn't your boyfriend's brother get his own place or go to his girlfriend's house to eat? If he wasn't being such an a**hole, I would say what could it hurt to feed him. But I cant blame you..I would feel the same way. I'm all about...do unto to others....
You may want to talk to your boyfriend because he shouldn't be disrespecting you if he is staying in the home of you and your boyfriend.
2006-08-02 16:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by philly_q_t_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you are living with your b/f and his brother also lives there ?? was the brother already there ? ok, that does not matter..... you are NOT, and I repeat NOT his maid or cook.... if you and your b/f are in a committed relationship then the b/f needs to step up and tell brother that you and he are a couple not a threesome.... who cooked for brother before you ? this brother needs to grow up and get a life and a sense of manners and decorum...... stick to your guns girl..... and as for him talking about you..... big deal...... kids will gossip and moan and groan..... that is all he is doing..... just smile and say *whatever*...... God bless
2006-08-02 15:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are not wrong, whats the deal? are you his maid? oh i get it if you do for 1 brother you got to do for the other.hell no! you are not his girl so why should you cook or do anything for him. besides youre boyfriend to have a talk with his brother, if he loves you then he will tell his brother to keep youre name out of his mouth,if not then screw the boyfriend and move the f on
2006-08-02 15:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by 1plum 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to earn his own keep and not expect you to wait on him hand and foot and cook his meals. If he gets hungry enough he can figure out a way to feed himself. He should not be disrespecting you in your home and your b/f need to make sure that this does not continue.
2006-08-02 15:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if there's this much tension between the two of you, the brother should move before it hurts your relationship with your boyfriend. I wouldn't cook for him either.
2006-08-02 15:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not wrong. And if he doesn't straighten up his attitude, kick his *** out. You BF needs to man up and have a talk with his brother.
2006-08-02 15:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no boo dont act like that just over look that because people talked about jesus and talking dont really hurt you it makes you stronger. but let him know that you know how he feels about you and that you love him any way. dont send you self to hell for someone else. love everybody and treat them the same u will get a blessing love ya.
2006-08-02 16:00:24 · answer #9 · answered by cupcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend it's you or his brother. One of you has to go. You can't have two families living in one house. Anybody would fight over anything. Get rid of the bum.
2006-08-02 15:59:04 · answer #10 · answered by Superstar 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋