Ive been friends with this guy for about 18 years I dont know what to do. I even got a lap dance from her for free cause i said I would tell if she didnt
2006-08-02 08:53:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Did you get a happy ending too?
18 years...best friend...how hot is she?
Ahhh...tell him, but tell him to go to the club to bust her, that way she doesn't have to know that you told him, and then you could probably hook up with her after he dumps her.
2006-08-03 08:10:14 · answer #1 · answered by a kinder, gentler me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy oh Boy the trouble a penis can cause!!! I'm so glad I don't have one! LMAO well as I'm sure you already know you shouldn't have gotten the lap dance but there are other questions to be answered here for instance... how serious are they? How long have they been together ? Nothing is wrong with a hot chick gettin paid for bein hot but if she has to hide it from her man then she shouldn't be doin it or she shouldn't have the man. I think you should be honest with your friend maybe leaving out some of the details...hint hint. Do you think she is possibly just hard up for money and this is the best way for her to make some? In that case maybe you should just leave it alone and not go there anymore I'm sure there are others.
2006-08-03 15:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by princessamber1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't tell him since you got the lap dance. A true friend would have refused the dance and told the friend.
2006-08-02 15:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well considering you got a lap dance from her then you r just as much of a villian as her.. i really don't know what to tell you. If you did not get the lap dance i would say tellhim he is your friend but you did something stupid by letting your little head think for you.
2006-08-03 21:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by blondiebella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask yourself this. If it were your g/f would you want to know. I'm sur eyou would. For her to be dancing is her business but to lie to him and him not know is very deceiving. For you to recieve a lap dance from her was wrong as well again you wouldn't want your girl dancing and shaking her stuff all over another man. I would be truthful to him you say he's your best friend then you need to offer him some support.
2006-08-02 16:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.It depends on how you want to look at it.
Sure he's been your friend of 18 yrs,ask yourself
would he tell you if the roles were switched?
There's your answer.If he would tell you about
it then I would go ahead and tell him what happened.
Other than that if you know he would'nt tell you,
then continue on.
2006-08-02 16:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by lostgrandma1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him what does she do. and find out the he know. do go out of the way and say " hey you girlfriend give great lap dances."
2006-08-02 15:59:57 · answer #7 · answered by IndyMM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him but leave out da part about da lap dance.....on second thought that was kind of shady for you to do
2006-08-02 15:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all...ur a jerk for getting a lap dance..from his girl.....ewww and 2nd yea tell him n do mention ur lap dance
2006-08-02 15:58:24 · answer #9 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE, YOU'RE SICK. YOUR BEST FRIEND FOR 18 YEARS? OBVIIOUSLY YOU HAVEN'T BEEN THAT SAME FRIEND TO HIM. ANYWAY, I'M NOT SURPRIZED WITH THIS SOCIETY TODAY. AND YEA, BE HONEST AND A "TRUE" FRIEND. YOU SHOULD LET HIM KNOW MAN. HONESTY IS THE BEST THING BETWEEN FRIENDS.
2006-08-02 16:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by luis.monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋