Family & Relationships - 2 August 2006

i recently broke up with my b/f of 5yrs. he cheated on me. i asked about the girl and he said" we call each other. assume we still talk everyday." i told him not to call me unless he stop talking with the other girl. he doesn't contact me at all since then.

I assume he is going out with the girl. but it's just sooo hard to get over. i try to keep myself busy, but if i have 10minutes, i still think about him. have you ever had experience like this? how did you get over? i still love him. but he doesn't wanna talk to me. i gotta move on.

i really don't know what to do.. how can i move on??

2006-08-02 08:22:59 · 15 answers · asked by makerunanrk 2 in Singles & Dating

My brother just informed me yesterday that my son is going to be the ring bearer at his wedding on the 19 of this month, and my husband is a groomsmen. I need a suit fast and cheap. We dont have alot of money to spend right now sence we have to buy the whole family (4 people) clothing for this wedding. He cant buy them, although I think he should sence he just told us this yesterday. We got a nice suit at the DAV for my husband, and couldnt find nething any where for my three yearold. We called about rental, but that is $50, buying is $60. Do any of you know a not so expensive website or something I could go to? Any help would be wonderful.

2006-08-02 08:20:22 · 6 answers · asked by butterfly 5 in Weddings

are girls generally interested in meeting guys at the gym? i'm not so much thinking about trying to hook up at the gym, but its just one of those things i ponder while on the treadmill sometimes:)

2006-08-02 08:18:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We got engaged she broke it off and wants to give back the ring. I do not know if I should accept it and keep it in case I would ever need it again, sell it, or let her keep it, in which case she would sell it. It's a 9 stone diamond ring worth 1900$ canadian that I purchased. It is considered bad luck to give it to another? If I sell it to a pawn shop will I be passing on the bad luck to the buyer?

2006-08-02 08:18:08 · 71 answers · asked by fegarius 1 in Weddings

He thought I was cheating on him with about 5 other guys!! When really I wasn't!!! I want to talk to him but he wont belive me and he dosen't even want to talk to me!!! I really love him!!! I would never cheat on him!!! What do I do??

2006-08-02 08:17:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship for 2 yrs with a man who is not ready to get married and I have recently meet a man who makes me feel like a school girl again. He is older then me and is ready for a grown up relationship, but I have invested 2 yrs and love my current man I just am tired of waiting on something I am scared will never happen.

2006-08-02 08:16:58 · 9 answers · asked by kimray1981 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-02 08:16:38 · 12 answers · asked by rio r 1 in Singles & Dating

I do not believe "once a cheater always a cheater" . .

2006-08-02 08:15:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have the biggest crush on this boy at my school.How can I tell if he likes me too?

2006-08-02 08:15:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

who would you pick and what would you do with your 15 minutes with the man of your dreams

2006-08-02 08:15:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Thanks Maggie for the true imput of me being a jerk , should i decide to have sex with someone else. this was mere a suggestion to get my wife's attention, which however is not the way I should go. But sometimes "shock therapy"helps.
No she dont want to see a sex therapist or head doctor, and it's not me being rough.....she simply dont like sex.
next q? how do I break the news to her as I am a sucker for tears and always give in the moment she starts to cry. But so have I cried in my heart and cannot continue like this, for this is not what life is about. I am no sex freak but i'm only human.

2006-08-02 08:15:15 · 8 answers · asked by spookie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive liked this guy
i just told him that i like him and now i want to avoid him
whenever he would ask i felt uncomftorble
whats wrong with me

2006-08-02 08:15:08 · 42 answers · asked by wegirlzcandance 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf is having a bad day, he is now asleep after a long day. I would like to call him and leave him a short message telling him that I love him and am thinking of him, so he will hear it when he finally wakes up. Since I always use those words I'd like to say something different. Any suggestions???

2006-08-02 08:15:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It'll be our 3 year anniversary August 18th. He's 29, I'm 24. I don't necessarily want to get married right now but if he proposed to me, say today, I would definitely say yes. To tell you the truth though, I don't know if it will ever happen. We do live together though so I think that's a good start. I would just like to know how long would you wait until you sat down with your significant other to have "the talk" about getting married? We do say things like "when we get married" and "if we get married" but as far as a serious conversation goes it never gets to that point. I'm a little nervous about bringing it up period because I don't want him to ever feel pressured BUT at the sametime it'd kinda be nice to know that it will adventually happen.

2006-08-02 08:14:47 · 31 answers · asked by MissLee 2 in Weddings

smile
speak
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2006-08-02 08:14:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

who would you pick and what would you do with your 15 minutes with the woman of your dreams

2006-08-02 08:13:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-02 08:13:48 · 6 answers · asked by North Cali Girl 1 in Friends

my best friend is practially the greatest guy on earth [to me] and i dont know how to ask him if he likes me too. we already dated once, and yestarday he told me i looked beautiful and everything.
im confused, and i dont know what to do.

2006-08-02 08:13:00 · 18 answers · asked by cleft_theboy_chinwonder 2 in Singles & Dating

How hard is a inter-racial relationship, should something more develop, especially living in the south.??

2006-08-02 08:12:51 · 6 answers · asked by Christy L 1 in Singles & Dating

1.good breakfast 2. all meals must be served to him lunch,dinner,no nagging,lots of sex,no working around the house,and she must be quiet,in his presents..HUSBAND ASK HIS WIFE WHAT DID THE DOCTOR SAY....YOUR GOING TO DIE

2006-08-02 08:12:37 · 16 answers · asked by har 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex boyfriend (we broke up about a year ago, were together for 3 but managed to stay friends) always accused me of being a "nympho" and said I wanted to have sex more than any other girl he's ever known. My ex boyfriend from about 4 months ago (we were together for about 10 months) also told me the exact same thing. My boyfriend now thinks I want sex too often as well.

This is a serious question. I am not some 13 year old girl goofing around on here or something okay? I'm a normal, healthy 20 year old woman with what I thought was a normal sex drive, but now I'm not so sure.

I know the sex is great and they are enjoying themselves (from what they tell me and from their physical reactions). So that's not the issue.

I guess, bottom line, my question is, is wanting to have sex every day, more than once a day abnormal? Am I a freak? How often do the rest of you want sex?

Sorry if it's a personal question, I'm just curious.

2006-08-02 08:12:02 · 52 answers · asked by Nonna 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-02 08:12:00 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I just got back from two years in Japan with my husband and we are now living with my family here in my home town. I haven't seen any of these people in a long time and coming out of no where just to see me and see how I have been. I'm glad that they care but it seems like my husband is more bothered by this then I am. I truely don't if they come and see me or not. I'm just happy to be back home with my husband, but he sees it as all of these guys are coming to get me while he is at work. I don't go anywhere out of the house without him unless I go to town with my mother. I have told him several times that I'm not interested in anyone else but him but he doesn't believe me. Hell, most of these guys are married or have kids and here I am trying to inform a brick wall of the fact that I'm better then that. The one person that I love that I don't want thinking of me like that. I told all of my friends to stay clear and it makes me unhappy and I feel jailed. I want friends as well.

2006-08-02 08:11:02 · 5 answers · asked by trying2keepittogether 2 in Marriage & Divorce

her husband is in Iraq. we work in an office together. I know for a fact that she is grinding a guy in the office. To make it even
more insulting, the guy she's doing it with is black. Not only that,
he's a total sleeze ball although he probably refers to it as
a "player". I feel sorry for the guy in iraq. I have met him, and he would be devastated if he knew,
one, that his wife was cheating, and two, that she's doing a black guy. I suppose I should just mind my own business. should I say anything to her?

2006-08-02 08:10:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

who you are? I mean who loves to be themselves no matter what? I enjoy just being myself, and you?

2006-08-02 08:09:35 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-02 08:09:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Of course i never got one. I got stuck with an older sister. Now, i love her and everything, but i always wanted a younger brother or sister to look up to me, or that i could play ball in the park with, atuff like that. Now, my friend has 2 younger cousins, a 13 year old girl and an 8 year old boy. I was playing with my friends 8 year old cousin all day yesterday when we were over his house. Hes like a brother to me and i would like to hang out with him more, maybe take him to see a movie or something. And his sister too if she wants. Ive always loved kids but ive never got the chance to be around them much. Should i tell my friends cousins parents or my friends parents how i feel? That i wanna hang out with the kids more? Cuz their whole family likes me too and i love being with them. I feel like im a part of the family when im with them.

2006-08-02 08:09:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Women seem to only want hot, sexy, buff men. I'm just not like that. I am a big teddy bear. Although I am nice, well spoken, educated, mannerly and respectful it just isn't enough. Women look at me and cringe, or cross to the other side of the street. Its just really hard. What's a nice guy to do?

2006-08-02 08:08:23 · 3 answers · asked by slasheddreams 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been involved with a guy who is practically by boyfriend, everyone thinks we are together. We tell each other we love each other and everything so we pretty much are together we just don't have the title. He tells me that he wants to be able to do things with other people but he doesn't want to hurt me. His exact words are, "we're not married and I just hate feeling like we are tieing each other down. I care for you and those other girls won't mean anything to me, but I don't want to lose you." I said okay but really inside, that would kill me to know that he does stuff with other people, I just don't feel the need to do that. How do I handle this, let him go and let him realize everything was right in front of him, or allow this to be an open realtionship when I love him with everything I have? Both men and women help!!

2006-08-02 08:07:07 · 35 answers · asked by Brittney M 1 in Singles & Dating

this weekend is your anaversary and he likes r&b songs but like i want to dance with him to some slow song so yeah

2006-08-02 08:07:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships