I have been in a relationship for 2 yrs with a man who is not ready to get married and I have recently meet a man who makes me feel like a school girl again. He is older then me and is ready for a grown up relationship, but I have invested 2 yrs and love my current man I just am tired of waiting on something I am scared will never happen.
2006-08-02 08:16:58 · 9 answers · asked by kimray1981 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask him straight out what he wants from your relationship, if he tells you that he isnt ready to settle down, move on, you cannot be expected to sit around waiting while, someone cant make up his mind, give the other fella a go if your boyfriend doesnt come through for you.
2006-08-02 08:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u really like this crush, sometimes it happens to b that the person ur with for a long time isnt really the person 4 u.if ur ready 4 a committed relationship and hes not then give the other guy a shot. if he makes u feel like a school girl thats a good thing u can keep things fresh, not old, like grown up.u still need to have fun in ur life.
2006-08-02 15:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by band weinie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is big risk and unfortunately a decision you must ultimately decide on your own. Are those the only reasons that you want to pursue this older man? You just got to sit down and weigh out the pros and cons of each guy and figure out which one would be the better man in the long run.
2006-08-02 15:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already answered your own question. I don't believe in cheating. But never the less. If If you are that interested in someone else. Then it is time to move on.
On the other hand I've gone with guys I have had crushes on. My inner fantasy of whet it would be like was better, than the actual thing
2006-08-02 15:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you and how old is he? do you want the same things out of life? what kind of character does your boyfriend have? the 2 year element is not the issue- the issue is can you invest anymore time with someone who isn't sure that you're worth the investment? don't take it personal- boyfriend may have his own hang-ups that may not have anything to do with you. move on
2006-08-02 15:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOt do it i did n it didn't work out wit him then i tryed to go back wit my ex n he siad no!! but time went by n now we're back going on 4 years now.
2006-08-02 15:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by gisselldalatina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my cousin done that her situation.. she was with this great guy but he his kids where all but grown and she was looking to get married and have kids so she broke up with this great guy and he came back with a ring... good luck to you.
2006-08-02 15:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with suzie - give her 10 pts !
2006-08-02 15:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by flygrrl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how committed you are to guy #1- do you love him> Sounds like maybe not
2006-08-02 15:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by greenfrogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋