I currently have a situation…my boyfriend and I have been off and on for about a year now. We broke up for a four months, and he in returns gets his “best friend” pregnant, I had no idea he got her pregnant until a month after I decided to get back in a relationship with him. He was having sex with her, and in the mist, she falls in love with him, she said it’s nothing I can do, because she will love him for an eternity. They were still having sex off and on, when our relationship was still in the midst of being established. I don’t know if he has feelings for her, he claims he doesn’t and she was a quick nut, but I don’t know if I can believe that. Why would he keep having sex with her? He wanted to have an abortion but she refuses and is keeping the child; she said I would not be able to see the child till he is 7. Recently, my boyfriend and I have decided to move in together, and she is blaming me for him not being able to be involved. To make things worse she has been his hoe, the whole time we were talking, before we were in a relationship, she knew all about me, I knew nothing of her. I just don’t know how to deal with the situation. I tried to speak to her woman to woman, but she wasn’t down for that. So now I am torn, my boyfriend seems to really be growing up, but sometimes I just don’t know
2006-08-02
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