I have decided to end everything with him coz it isn't fair to the other girl but i still keep on thinking about him and he is still trying to pursue me. What should I do?
2006-08-02 11:16:45 · 10 answers · asked by bonsai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to let him know that this is something that you're not going to do. He already has a girlfriend and the last thing that you need right now is to hurt yourself, him, and his girlfriend. Make sure that you're very clear on that. There are plenty of guys out there who would love to go out with you. What goes around, comes around and he is not a good boyfriend to his current girlfriend because he was cheating on her with you. Even if you guys decided to hook up ( if he broke up with his girlfriend), more than likely, he'll do the same thing to you. Break it off right now and continue meeting new people.
2006-08-02 11:23:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know he cheats, so you wouldn't want to have a relationship with him. But a fling is a fling, it's for fun only. If you're just in it for the sex, then it doesn't really matter. The fact that you "keep thinking about him" is a bad sign. I'd say stay away, tell him it's over. My guess is he'll stop bugging you once he finds a different girl with cheat with.
2006-08-02 11:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by evil_clown_of_destruction 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try whatever you can to stay away from him and keep your mind off him. Spend time with your girlfriends, go see a movie, or whatever floats your boat. If he's trying to persue you, just keep telling him to stop. Try doing so with some friends by to help. If that doesn't get to him, you should tell his girlfriend even if you think she won't take it well. Good Luck.
2006-08-02 11:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by theoriginalelwood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive done the same thing! ive had the guy break up witht he girl just to go out with me (i didnt tell him too do that) im also kinda playing the field! I have a guy that plans to make out with me even though i have a boyfriend! it isnt hurting me at all but i know that it is a terrible thing to do! i just like te thought that multiple guys are after me and i cant let them drift away from me
2006-08-02 11:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by nagas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are very wise to end this. Tell him that if his girlfriend approves (and she must tell you directly) then you will continue this with him. That way you won't have to live a lie.
2006-08-02 11:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont talk 2 him he's already wit sum1 u'll find sum1 perfect 4 u when da time is right
2006-08-02 11:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by numba_1_babii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel then try to go on.If you keep thinking about him try to get him for yourself.
2006-08-02 11:21:22 · answer #7 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the chick......
She'll hate you... and probably want 2 kick ur @$$ but hey... If your b.f did that 2 you... wouldn't you want to know?
2006-08-02 11:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by ~*Juggalette 4 Life*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his girlfriend that he's a cheating *** hole!
2006-08-02 11:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by camryn010703 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop talking to him all together.
2006-08-02 11:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋