Crazy baby's momma?

Question

I currently have a situation…my boyfriend and I have been off and on for about a year now. We broke up for a four months, and he in returns gets his “best friend” pregnant, I had no idea he got her pregnant until a month after I decided to get back in a relationship with him. He was having sex with her, and in the mist, she falls in love with him, she said it’s nothing I can do, because she will love him for an eternity. They were still having sex off and on, when our relationship was still in the midst of being established. I don’t know if he has feelings for her, he claims he doesn’t and she was a quick nut, but I don’t know if I can believe that. Why would he keep having sex with her? He wanted to have an abortion but she refuses and is keeping the child; she said I would not be able to see the child till he is 7. Recently, my boyfriend and I have decided to move in together, and she is blaming me for him not being able to be involved. To make things worse she has been his hoe, the whole time we were talking, before we were in a relationship, she knew all about me, I knew nothing of her. I just don’t know how to deal with the situation. I tried to speak to her woman to woman, but she wasn’t down for that. So now I am torn, my boyfriend seems to really be growing up, but sometimes I just don’t know

Answer 1

You need to get out why you can. They both seem to be running some came that you do not need. Just think she is carrying his unborn child that is 18 years of dealing with her crazy a$$. I know you may feel you love him, but you deserve to be loved as well and not by someone who sleeps with his "best friend", but yet say she was just a quick nut, WTF!!! Then ask yourself will he want you to abort if by chance you became pregnant? I wish you the best, but remember no woman deserves to be treated like that.

Answer 2

When a man is ready to settle down he will take all the necessary steps to ensure a smooth relationship. As long as he is sleeping with another woman, it will not work. It sounds to me like he is not ready for a relationship, but if you do decide to take him back I hope you make him prove himself and his loyalty. I also hope you are ready to deal with this other woman and his child.

Answer 3

it seems to me that your boyfriend is lookin 4 some fast hoe to fu ck when he couldnt get no pus sy from you, what you need to do is find yourself a man that wont fu ck the next hoe when you are havin problems... just think if she is like this now, imagine how its gonna be when she has this kid... if i was u id leave his sorry as$ bofore i find myself in the same situation as his so called "best friend".


Best of luck to you!!