yesterday i broke up with my boyfriend. i loved him...and maybe he loved me but he wasn't showing it like he used to. also, i felt like he had a thing for this other girl. i still love him, and i know he has some kind of feelings for me...but i know he likes the other girl too. and i'm having trouble talking to him about it! any advice?
2006-08-02 11:19:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i say u should just talk to him and tell him how u really feel and tell him u love him just that u feel he didnt really show it
2006-08-02 11:28:29 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you should have done the talking part before the breaking-up part... generally couples try to fix their problems before they end the relationship. The reason you want to talk to him and understand how deep his feelings for you and/or this other girl are is so that you can perhaps fix the relationship... but you have already broken the relationship... so you have already messed up your chances. This doesn't mean you need to give up though, just be sincere and honest with him. Start by explaining why you broke up with him. Tell him of your suspicions of his feelings for this other girl and then tell him that you feel as if he no longer loves you as much as he used to. Hope this helps, remember, communication and honesty are the key to good, healthy, lasting relationships. God bless
2006-08-02 18:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by Girl 4 God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing here is to move on and meet new people who are more in tune with you and your heart.
those guys who are only into you because of your beauty are just using you for that, especially when their hearts are with another female in the first place.
2006-08-02 18:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, Ky!
I think that you should try spending a little more time with him, and hopefully, things will mend by themselves. However, if things don't improve, I'd suggest trying to move on. Hope I helped!
2006-08-02 19:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by m e l i <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, ur gonna get into a situation if u continue to like him
personal experience
2006-08-02 18:24:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and try it again
2006-08-02 18:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by New New 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋