there is this guy that goes to my chruch and he is in 8th and i am in 6th he talks to me all the time and sits by me and i like him
2006-08-02 11:13:09 · 21 answers · asked by JoJo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In this case, why don't you develop a strong, healthy friendship with him?
It's too soon and you're a bit on the young side to consider romance.
Romantic relationships are just so darned confusing and hard on the heart and brain...it's better to let that be for now and enjoy his company as a friend.
Just keep on doing what you're doing.
I hope my advice helped and I apologize if it didn't.
Take care!
2006-08-02 11:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by flod_prfekshun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an Well I thins he's too old, because your 11 or 12 not even a teen quite yet and he's about 13 or 14 I think you should stay with someone in your age group. and if he's finding interest in having a relationship with a 11 or 12 year old he's PROBABLY only coming for one thing. (not all guys or that way)
2006-08-02 18:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by Nikka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK so why not just ask him if he wants to hang out with you
outside of church and perhaps catch a movie with both your friends ( a friendly outing) . By doing that neither of you would feel the pressure to have to hang out one on one. Or if you're daring just ask him to hang with just you. If he says no thanks then take that as he just only wants to continue things as they are. Build this friendship and see where it can go. Don't jump into a sexual relationship because you are a little young for that.
Take a chance. Good Luck.
2006-08-02 18:18:58 · answer #3 · answered by NJGirl313 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u are scared to make the god angry for flirting in the church, ask him out lo. Church is not a good place to date anyway.. U can be friends first, maybe after sometime u find him a better friend? U must try then will know.
No try no chance
2006-08-02 21:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so whats the problem here honey if you hit it off and you like things about him whats the problemm does your littler friend make you laugh do you get along really god i suspect you have some kind of felings for your litle frienmd hey dont let tghis one get away you might be with hiom for the rest of lives this is how great friends are made etc, sadly sometimes as people get older thou they drift apart, kep after him i think you really like him and hes good for you kep it up hons!1 daveey and steviee
2006-08-02 18:17:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you love everybody in church? You might not like him elsewhere. I don't know, just a thought. He could be there, because his parents make him go. I'd say keep talking to him and whats the worry??
2006-08-02 18:20:33 · answer #6 · answered by tyreanpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you've become good friends. You are too young to think of anything more, if it is meant to be more than that it will be in a few years. Enjoy your childhood and friendships.
2006-08-02 18:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by Tam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats!
2006-08-02 18:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by camryn010703 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only write notes or emails at this point.
Your too young.
2006-08-02 18:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its cool to be friends with him, however you should not be thinking of dating him, or calling him your boyfriend for another couple of years. (when you get in eight grade).
2006-08-02 18:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by dadnnelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋