Family & Relationships - 30 July 2006

Guys 1: How would you like a lady to chat you up?
Ladies: 1. How would you chat up a guy?
Guys: 2. Would you like a lady to chat you up or do you think it should always be the guy who approaches the lady?
Ladies: 2. Do you think that a lady approaching a guy is the wrong move?

Me well i think it can work but well guys always seem put off by a lady "chatting them up".. or am i wrong?

2006-07-30 21:22:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is it when a person fell inlove,they lose all of their wits? count me on that coz i think i am experincing that.met this guy once then after 4 months without any communication,we met again.i invited him if he wanna come to our picnic party and said yes.but then,he told me he has a girl already.i made an excuse to call it off once i knew it but still,insisted that he'll come.bringing his friend.i like him actually.but knowing that he has a gal,i wanted to cut all oppurtunities to be with him.got no plans of luring him.don't wanna hurt her gal coz i know what it feels like coz i've experienced that too.but what am i to do?i like him a lot! should i sacrifice again my own happiness as what i always do just as not to hurt other people?or should i be greedy now even just for once?i believe in karma and don't want to experince it? is there any way i can just make this guy remember me not just in his mind but also in his heart? for whatever the future might hold for us.

2006-07-30 21:21:58 · 8 answers · asked by peek-a-boo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-30 21:20:12 · 2 answers · asked by anonymouse_man_1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is true love

2006-07-30 21:20:11 · 7 answers · asked by victor a 1 in Friends

i get horny when i think about a girl who has never sex and is so horny and is in sport clothes without any underwear. do i have problem or i am healthy or its my fetish?

2006-07-30 21:19:55 · 9 answers · asked by X-Boy 1 in Singles & Dating

Another side,my husband love money more than love me,And i think its waste my time to stay with him,Love is the whole world to a woman i think,But it's hard to divorce here in China sometimes ,I've tried to divorce,but failed,I didn't tell him the truth,Seems I have not got the final.......I am so confused now.show me a way out.

2006-07-30 21:19:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is finding a man so hard... One who actually likes you for you..? Every guy you like/find attractive you go to he is taken.. a guy approaches you and he really is NOT what you are looking for...
I guess i am just tired of looking and having no joy.. anyone have any HELPFUL suggestions?

2006-07-30 21:18:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been going out for a month now was thinking about giving him a teddy bear but i realy don't know

2006-07-30 21:18:37 · 12 answers · asked by mypigpin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend broke up with me today...but i dont want to go back out with him. although i want to make him jealous. theres this other guy i'm thinking about going out with..so idk...lol

2006-07-30 21:18:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he said call him, but i dont want to be a leech like tht, so my question is should i or not? after all its only a week

2006-07-30 21:17:39 · 7 answers · asked by start w/ laughs ends witha fight 3 in Family

Does he like me as a girlfriend or afriend.?
A friend of mine at college and I used to hang a lot. As friends we used to study together, go to concerts BBQ's. Now he callls me almost everynight. He also started to invite me almost everynight to his room to watch movies. Sometimes he would tease me like a little kid. My friends have told me he likes, but I am not sure about that.
However, he talks about how much he likes porn and even show me a videoclip once. One time when he saw a girl walking by he said how much he wished he would nail her.
He knows I am quite liberal about that. But would you say that to a girl that you like?
We also talk about what we want each other from a relationship, he is dissappointed because he is not in one.
Do you think he likes me, and how should I ask him?

2006-07-30 21:14:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-30 21:14:49 · 17 answers · asked by bobby.k 1 in Singles & Dating

You see my ex-boyfriend got scarred and left, i mean left state, now he claims our daughter is not his and claims that I ran him out of state. I know that he loves her because I watched him with her. You can't fake that. I don't really care if he loves me because he is way to childish for me. I want a stable man, who can deal with lifes obsticles.
But here is the question.
Should I let him be a part of her life and hurt her or should I keep him as far away from her as I can?

2006-07-30 21:14:32 · 8 answers · asked by Princess 3 in Family

I had a relationship with a guy for more than 5 years... But now he married to another women. But now I don'nt wish know any other guys and get marrired...

2006-07-30 21:13:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure but this may have something to do with my first relationship which was with a family friend 27 years older than me (I was 14, he was 41). It was my first sex, but the best I've ever had (I'm 23 now). What do you think?

2006-07-30 21:13:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and then went to a niteclub in town wi his mates and he txt me at half 3 saying he was home(lives wi his parents). then i was chatting to his mum this morning and she doesnt no wat time he was in at(think she knows ritely)but she said he wasnt home at 4 wen she checked. why wud he lie to me do you think he cheated or what?

2006-07-30 21:13:34 · 9 answers · asked by comeo!! 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I'm 16 and I've never had a boyfriend. Whenever I get a crush on someone I never work up the courage to actually talk to them. I'm an extremely shy person even though I perform all the time in dance recitals. My best friend is always saying that I should just "write a note" to them and give it to them in class. I keep telling her that this doesn't make sense. If I like someone, but they don't know me well, why would I just randomly pass them a note in class asking them out or something, plus I'm too shy to do that. So my question is, what are some techniques I could use to get guys to notice me for my personality not just my looks, how can I talk to them without getting nervous, how can I start a friendship with a guy that will lead to a Bf/Gf relationship. Pretty much all my guy friends are gay, and the ones that aren't I never have talked to ever because they were only in one of my classes a year and I never saw them again except during passing periods and they "forgot who I was". HELP!!!

2006-07-30 21:12:30 · 12 answers · asked by sweetpink221 1 in Singles & Dating

In my case, it almost ruined my life. But harboring ill feelings just makes it worse, so what are you supposed to do?

2006-07-30 21:11:25 · 9 answers · asked by DL 6 in Friends

hypothetically speaking, of course ;)

2006-07-30 21:08:45 · 12 answers · asked by Joshua 1 in Friends

is it a good thing to double date.

2006-07-30 21:08:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-30 21:08:06 · 3 answers · asked by parsamhmhpa 1 in Friends

2006-07-30 21:07:47 · 17 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

One of my friends is dating a guy that is 4 years younger than her, Is this okay or wrong? She is 22 and he is 18.

2006-07-30 21:07:17 · 13 answers · asked by CJV228 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a significant other who blames all her woes, inabilities and anxieties on my sisters, imaginary girlfriends and concubines (who usually are acquintances or coworkers). She is afraid of the dark, reacts to issue in confrontational manner and generally very anxious about trivial things. She does not believe in socializing.

2006-07-30 21:06:40 · 3 answers · asked by ANEYO 1 in Family

Black girls make guys work so much harder than white girls. As a white guy its hard to make the adjustment but the reward is greater. Black girls are much more sensual and are very warm. And they have the sexiest bodies on earth!!! The greatest reward on the planet is when a gorgeous sexy cool black girl finally gives you some love.

2006-07-30 21:05:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone, Recently I had a terrible verbal fight with a male friend of mine,someone i truly care about. I emailed him terrible things out of anger that I didn't really mean. He emailed back saying that if I ever contacted him again by any means he would seek formal advice and take the matter further. I can't beleive this, I really want to apologize but he did say,no contact at all and a apology is a contact. It's eating me up inside! Idon't know whether to risk it and send him a apology. I'm fairly sure he has or had feeling for me because of the way he stares at me all the time(for 2yrs actually). I also think his reaction was abit extreme. Maybe he lashed out of anger. Anyway, what do I do, I'm abit scared?

2006-07-30 21:05:43 · 10 answers · asked by charmed one 2 in Friends

Hey there, just a bored insomniac looking for something to do, any ideas?

2006-07-30 21:04:43 · 20 answers · asked by Max C 4 in Singles & Dating

And ask by saying can I go *** em.Have they already had sex ?Or should they say can I go see if they will *** me.

2006-07-30 21:02:41 · 12 answers · asked by Randy P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-30 21:01:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I had a crush on this guy for a couple of weeks and then it faded. But then we became friends and suddenly one day he proposed! I said no and then he tried to convince me and crap. So I decided to completely ignore him. But he still is after me, he keeps calling me. At this point, I hate him.

I told him I am not interested. But he still calls me every single day. How do I make him stop??

2006-07-30 21:00:41 · 12 answers · asked by Eata 3 in Singles & Dating