why is it when a person fell inlove,they lose all of their wits? count me on that coz i think i am experincing that.met this guy once then after 4 months without any communication,we met again.i invited him if he wanna come to our picnic party and said yes.but then,he told me he has a girl already.i made an excuse to call it off once i knew it but still,insisted that he'll come.bringing his friend.i like him actually.but knowing that he has a gal,i wanted to cut all oppurtunities to be with him.got no plans of luring him.don't wanna hurt her gal coz i know what it feels like coz i've experienced that too.but what am i to do?i like him a lot! should i sacrifice again my own happiness as what i always do just as not to hurt other people?or should i be greedy now even just for once?i believe in karma and don't want to experince it? is there any way i can just make this guy remember me not just in his mind but also in his heart? for whatever the future might hold for us.
2006-07-30 21:21:58 · 8 answers · asked by peek-a-boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it should have in us in the first place but due to this incident caused by this woman..we ended up as like strangers to each other..i don't know what to do now? should i wait for him again?
2006-07-30 21:23:27 · update #1
hey. most of us women have guys like that in our past. I had one not too long ago. Maybe we missunderstand what love it. I am not sure. Attraction and love has to come from both people.
You are in extreem attraction with him. We can't exlain it, but we have all been there. I would say let him be with her and if they break up then show your interest. Afterall, if he were yours would you like someone moving in on you? And do you want a guy who is a player?
Let go of your intense feelings and move on. If he is suppose to be with you,. it will be.
2006-07-30 21:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do u want him to remember u?!
sorry but u have to know that what u r thinkin abt is totally bad he got a gf he told u abt it and he was honest,u met him twice and there wasnt that big time to like him that much have u thought abt "i just want him cuz i'm a go to get person"
maybe thats true maybe not but there is 3 ppl in this thing and if u didnt forgot abt it u will hurt the 3 she will be hurt cuz he might cheat or leave her cuz of u ,he will be hurt cuz he isnt with her,and u will be hurt cuz he wont be urs and if he did that he will leave u for someone else just like he did with the girl
so no he shouldnt remember u and u shouldnt try to make him remember u i know u dun like this but i'm trying to help u, but u have to know this is the right thing to do even if u dun like
dun contact him in any way what ever was the reason thats the best for u all!
2006-07-30 21:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but you have met the guy twice and you already think you are in love? its not love but lust, u just fancy him.
i really think you should move on. he has been honest with you and told you he has a girlf so he obviously just thinks of you as a friend. But if he is willing to see you as well as his girlf then would you really want to go out with a guy like that? If he can cheat on her there will be nothing stopping him doing it to you when someone Else he fancies comes along, and they always do.
i know you would like to find happiness and you will but not with this guy, you will just end up getting hurt and used.
the right guy will be out there but he wont have a girlf and will want u as much as you want him, be patent.
2006-07-30 22:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by crazychick_lou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats up, pal. My suggestion would be tell her how sorry you're and clarify it. i understand if i became your lady pal and that i heard you're saying to me precisely what you wrote, i'd have self belief you're sorry. you would be able to desire to exhibit regret to her for each and all of the flaws you suggested/did incorrect. additionally, do no longer start up sending them yet. After a brilliant combat you will desire to artwork your earlier as much as what you had in the previous. So as quickly as you sense you're back the place you have been in the previous then tell her each and all of the flaws you wrote for her, and theory approximately her and so on. and so on. and so on. additionally, you will desire to end ****ing the different women. because of fact if your lady pal found out that ought to make it worse than it already is and it does not make your life particularly hassle-free in any respect you will lose her for solid and destroy your acceptance. So only beg for forgiveness, end seeing those different women, and artwork your earlier as much as her loving you. Its going to be ok.
2016-12-10 18:41:56 · answer #4 · answered by andie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar situation and I am too a big believer of karma....So if fate had brought you together once, fate will bring you together again if its meant to be....I sure have hope I will be with him one day, I just keep my love alive until that day comes....
2006-07-30 21:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by Spellbinder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sooner or later,regardless where u come from & who u are,we eventually fall prey in love's clutches. As 2 y we lose all common sense,is cuz luv is blind.
2006-07-30 21:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would forget about him and move on, if he wanted you he would dump his girl and ask you out on a proper date
2006-07-30 21:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by jojo78 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NA SISTER, MOVE ON THERE ARE PLENTY MORE FISH IN THE SEA!!!
2006-07-30 21:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by sonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋