Does he like me as a girlfriend or afriend.?
A friend of mine at college and I used to hang a lot. As friends we used to study together, go to concerts BBQ's. Now he callls me almost everynight. He also started to invite me almost everynight to his room to watch movies. Sometimes he would tease me like a little kid. My friends have told me he likes, but I am not sure about that.
However, he talks about how much he likes porn and even show me a videoclip once. One time when he saw a girl walking by he said how much he wished he would nail her.
He knows I am quite liberal about that. But would you say that to a girl that you like?
We also talk about what we want each other from a relationship, he is dissappointed because he is not in one.
Do you think he likes me, and how should I ask him?
2006-07-30 21:14:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that he likes u but u he thinks u dont like him so he see u as a friend cuz u have not shown intrest.so u need to show him u do like him. until he knows u have intrest in him he will talk about other chicks.hes single and instead of looking he is inviting u so that tell me that he has a huge intrest in u.the hint of he wishes he was in a relationship was a big one.still he should step up and ask u whats up. u know its hard for a guy to go and ask a girl with the fear of a rejection.so he like not sure and is waiting for u.so u need to make the next move.just str8 out tell him hey do u like me or when are u going to ask me out.be confident and he should be impressed.belive me i been in this situation and was like 4ever it seemed till i took a chance and asked her.so yeah u need to just tell him if u want to know or else just wait 4 him and who knows how long that will take.so i think he likes u and u need to ask him or give him a sign.good luck
2006-07-30 21:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All those comments mean he's sounding you out about sex. If you want to do him, next time he make a comment go along with him. Flirt back. He'll get his courage up if he knows you're interested. He's looking for the green light, that's all. You should be a little insulted though that he didn't find a more respectful way to handle the situation. Consider this strike one, but go for it if you want.
2006-07-31 04:23:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, thats confusing.I was sure he is into you until i read the part about porn. I wouldnt tell that to a girl i want as a girlfriend. it seems like he sees you as a very very very close friend of him.( by the way , how come you like such a guy?)
anyway, there is nothing as impossible in love.and remember: many strong relationships are built up on close frienships.I think you shouldnt say anything.let your actions talk instead of words.
good luck..
2006-07-31 04:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i think all the things he says like i wish i could nail that girl are things he says just to try and get you a bit jelous and he is trying to get a reaction out of you coz he isnt sure of how to tell you that he likes you , the next time you talk to him you ask him if there is something more than friendship between you two and if he says no then its done if he says yes it could be a good thing and you guys can work on that.
2006-07-31 04:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by theguru_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you and he's just trying to get a reaction out of you because he isn't sure about your feelings for him or if you like him or not, and he is just teasing you ....
I think he talks about porn and showed it to you, just to see if "something happens".
I mean nobody calls a girl every night and hang a lot " just because"
And I think he wants to do " dirty things" with you, and when he talks about porn and how much he wished he would nail that girl etc, he is just trying to say:
I would like to do that with you.
Don't ask him if he likes you or not,,,
the next time he says something about porn, say something like "ha ha that's hot, we should do it...." or something like that to see his reaction.....see what he says or do and then " ha ha I'm joking"
2006-07-31 05:04:45 · answer #5 · answered by Special R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if he likes you, but I do know he wants to sleep with you.....You do realise that if you too have sex things will never be the same again dont you.
Ask your self this, do you love this guy or is it the attention his giving you, if you are not interested in him that way, then perhaps make it clear and save your friendship....If your after just some fun and he is too then just go for it, as long as you are both aware of it....
2006-07-31 04:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by Spellbinder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Point blank: go 2 them and ask them how they feel bout u.With him sayin dat shyt about nailin dat other gurl bypassin u, then he ain't into u as u thought. Things seemed like they were goin gr8,until dat thing bout that other gurl.He's an insensitive cad & aint worthy of u. Stop hangin w/ his sorry ***. U deserve better.
2006-07-31 04:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ,i think he is fond of you and and likes u sexually only ,that is he wants to sleep with you ...i am sure he doesnt like you for what u are or for ur personality...take care and find someone who really loves you..i dont know how old u r are but take it easy about sex if u r young believe me it is very nice when there's true mutual love and very disgusting and has negastive effects on ur personality when its just for lust ...
2006-07-31 04:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by gama_km 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to ask you or write him a note. mostly the guy will if you get a friend to tell him you like him. he'll ask soon enough
2006-07-31 04:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by Tegan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys don't put that much effort to a girl thats only a friend. yeah he likes you. but i think he says those things to cover up feelings.
2006-07-31 04:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by Sunshynebeams 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋