Why is finding a man so hard... One who actually likes you for you..? Every guy you like/find attractive you go to he is taken.. a guy approaches you and he really is NOT what you are looking for...
I guess i am just tired of looking and having no joy.. anyone have any HELPFUL suggestions?
2006-07-30 21:18:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I did the same thing and faced the same thing and then Realised......
.........And then Realised that i need not search anyone. I realised that the best of the things including guys and girls entered my life when i was least expecting and then they joined the river of my life becoming one with me...inseperable. Since then life has really been a beautiful journey full of surprises.
God is really caring and often gives beautiful surprises. so we need to go one with life and embrace god's gifts whenever he gives us one.
so live your life and leave the rest to God. Keep smiling and doing good, good people- friends and lovers will just drp in.
bye.
2006-07-30 21:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by handyplast007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are looking in the wrong places,and thereforeyou get the taken ones,etc., I understand how you feel I have been there myself, I would suggest that you try a different approach like go to God in prayer, and then you can ask for the type of person you are looking for who is not taken I'm sure that God knows what you need and putting your trust in God to help you can have amazing results although it may not be instant or you may not see straight away but I have done that and now I have a wonderful caring husband who is caring and loks after me and keeps me in his heartind I have him in my heart so it works out well
2006-07-30 21:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by I speak Truth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have 2 suggestions
first u should stop looking cuz in that way u will make wrong desessions cuz u r on hurry even if u said u r not so just calm down wait and it will happen without noticin how it happened u'll find ur self fallin to the right one
second one is abt ur measers u might have some high level measers so u have to know that no one is perfect no one cant take exactly what they want u have to belive that they will always have less than what u want and more than what u have thought abt
thats all what i got hope it helps!
2006-07-30 21:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a great solution...don't look! :) I wasn't looking when I met my fiance and BAM! :) Same thing with him. When we met, we weren't sure where it was going to go...friendship? More? Who knows?
However, I do also recommend dating websites. I think that is a great way to meet people. I know I'm pretty much contradicting myself here, but try out eharmony or one of those sites....there are a lot of good guys out there that you might not have had the opportunity to meet elsewhere! :) Good luck
2006-07-30 21:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 07:11:24 · answer #5 · answered by robinette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The moment you stop *looking* you will start *seeing.* It sounds bizarre but it's true that the right one will find you when you are at peace with not trying to force something to work.
2006-07-30 21:22:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joy is with in you.
Stop looking and it will find you. Once you are happy with yourself you attract other.
Always look and be confident and happy, men will not be able to resist you.
2006-07-30 21:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by Erica T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking and a great guy will find you!!! Your supposed to make men work ;)
2006-07-30 21:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime you have to be realistic about what you want. Maybe lower your standards a tad. Just keep looking.
2006-07-30 21:23:26 · answer #9 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say quit looking. live your life, and let things come to you. with a bit of patience, and a good heart, things are bound to end up the way you want! he's out there i promise
2006-07-30 21:21:35 · answer #10 · answered by redeye069 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋