We've been together for 7 years, we have 3 children 51/2, 4, and 3. I've haven't felt "in love" with him since before the birth of our 3rd child. I've told him this before, we're trying to work it out. I thought it was working but I still don't feel like I can fall back in love with him. I have trouble kissing him, we barely have sex and the only thing we seem to talk about is the children. I have cheated on him in the past although he doesnt know. We have a beautiful house and 2 nice vehicles. I don't want to loose that but I can't move out and neither can he. I'm just so unhappy almost depressed about the situation. My parents don't agree, my husband thinks I'm playing mind games with him but I've been honest with everyone (except the cheating part, but that was the past.) Do I just suck it up for the kids and continue being unhappy or say it again and mean it that I'm done and loose everything I've worked for?
2006-07-27
03:38:42
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a.kranz
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Marriage & Divorce