2006-07-27 03:43:51 · 7 answers · asked by whatsnaname9999 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should I start playing games.....this guy I think I'm dating....he acted really interested at first but not lately....I am available when he calls or wants to go out....do I need to make myself less available? Is he playin me? We only see eachother a few times a week and he never calls....I call and he doesn't answer. We chat online but even still he sometimes ignores my IM's....I really like him and he says he likes me and he says really sweet things.....we correspond via email sometimes and he says things that really make me think he's serious but then he does something weird like ignore my calls and im's....I'M SO CONFUSED!! I'm about to just give up and move on cuz I hate this drama.....but am I creating it myself? I doubt he thinks this much about it.
2006-07-27 03:58:11 · update #1
Well, he will respect you more if he has to do a little chasing. Remember playing games in a relationship is perfectly acceptable as long as they arnt cruel games. Games are what you use to develope a strong and lasting bond and keep things fun. But at the same time us guys arnt going to chase forever, most of the decent guys will give up after the first or second rejection. Its the creepy stalker guys who wont leave you alone. But leave the shy guy with some sort of opening so he knows he might be able to ask again later.
Once your dating keep the games going. Decide before the date how your going to test your partner. how much affection are you going to want to give and recieve? Test how he or she reacts if you make out one night but only lightly kiss and hold hands the next night. Will he or she respect that you wernt in the mood that night or will they push for more lovin.
Remember communication can occure in many ways, body language, letters, or open conversation. Someways are just easier for people, so play with it and see what results you like more. The whole point of dating is to get to know a person, their oppinions and how they react. You only hurt yourself if you just accept a relationship blindly, 5 years from now you might be with a kid and having that first divorce you never wanted if you dont give tests during the dating years.
2006-07-27 03:53:54 · answer #1 · answered by puzzle55usa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The chase is exciting. From what I can tell, it's exciting on both sides. (Evidence: Why else would women read Harlequins like there's no tomorrow?)
Some guys live for the chase. Chase, capture, take, and then move on. Other guys are looking for much deeper relationships.
The trick is to avoid becoming old and boring -- for both folks. Keep the relationship fresh by finding new things to do and new things to talk about.
2006-07-27 03:52:12 · answer #2 · answered by jplrvflyer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once the chase or the "Hunt" is over.... it's only a matter of time before a new "Hunt" begins
2006-07-27 03:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by moonlite1us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all guys baby girl. some of us know exactly what we look for and some of us get chased.
2006-07-27 03:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true. When they either meet someone they will marry or when they get too old to get another woman.
2006-07-27 03:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We never stop. After one conquest, there is always another challenge!
2006-07-27 03:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is partially true and partially wrong
2006-07-27 03:48:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋