When I'm having sex with my bf, I climax, but after I do I'm not in the mood anymore, how can I change so that I can enjoy the rest of it, until he does? A really stupid question I know but its getting me down!
2006-07-27 03:43:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hold your climax until you can not hold it anymore, it will make you better for you and him. then you will want more, and more. well that worked form me!
good luck
2006-07-27 03:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by <3King Julian :-) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a mind thing, it is a learning process, and no question is stupid. Think about how you felt before you climaxed, or how you feel when having fore play. Does it not excite you to think about him being aroused??? If all else fails get on top and do the work. Then you are having to work at making him happy and you can climax again.
2006-07-27 03:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have good forplay, kiss him for awhile and good oral
have him kiss you for awhile and oral for you too
THEN last, sex for awhile, so now the climax can be enjoyed
and he can enjoy being with you and everybody is finished!!!!!!
no not a stupid question, just take your time
2006-07-27 03:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to focus on the WHOLE love making experience and don't just focus on your goal to climax.
2006-07-27 03:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by La Chica Sexy! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a man.... usually...it happens to them and anyway they dont have control over it afterwards..
but dont worry about this..... start changing your mood slowly and slowly...and pateince will help you...
if you help him climax, he would love you more
2006-07-27 03:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by Monsh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that happens to a lot of us... just think of it as his turn now... If he finished b4 u, youd want him to help you "finish" wouldn't you. Give and take situation... very rare for two to finish at the same time.
2006-07-27 03:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by Malaikablu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to answer for I am in it more after and never want to stop, but have ya tried to play w/ yours while he still is goin you are more sensitive after and can really keep goin if ya want to, we are considered the everready battery ya know,
2006-07-27 03:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by BRIAN J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE THAT IS JUST THE WAY YOUR BODY IS, PUT YOUR MIND INTO IT THE REST OF THE WAY.
2006-07-27 03:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by shannkitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after you're finished...tease him a little. play hard to get..make him chase you. that usually helps me in this situation.
2006-07-27 03:46:39 · answer #9 · answered by ohprettybud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby I'm wrong but it sounds like stop the action whene you climax.DON'T!!!!!
we love you to much we don't want you to misout!!
good luck!!!
enjoy!!
2006-07-27 03:48:24 · answer #10 · answered by emavigailh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋