"Why can't guys tell the truth once in their life stop lying & their cheating habit ways especially not trust

Question

" Wy doesn't guys get married if they not gonna be faithful & still have their same cheating way as ever. Women might lie sometime but not like guys do they good at tht when they try to get away with things,Guys doesn't mean you nogood tht wy most women goes opposie way b/c the way they get treat by guys.B/c guys think they own you once they put a ring on your finger wrong answer. Women shouldn't be letting these guys trap them to married them if you're not ready or don't love him enough or can't trust him b/c his habit way he have on him b/c they will try to act nice at first then they start showing their real trueself "Wy guys try to be in controling & violet all time to women they have no respect for them or to theyself as well tht crime shame.

Answer 1

Not all guys are like that. You need to re-evaluate your taste and choices. Oh, and learn to spell!

Answer 2

Ironic how guys feel that women lie and cheat more than we do...lol which i think is true...or it may not be...there are very few honest, sincere people on this planet from either sex...we are just judgemental of the one we don't understand - but in any case lying and cheating is wrong - and if you lie to someone you are disrespecting them - i've been lied to and cheated on - its not us guys who need to stop - its people - I take it you have had bad experiences with guys and so feel they're all like that - maybe you've only met the a s s holes or just look down on the nice ones because they don't fit the image you want - well they're actually the best out there and the only one's who'll treat ya right so, you need to go for different men - there aint many honest ones - put on a planet of 6 billion, im sure there are plenty - it works both ways - as for violent guys 'what the hell?!' - some disturbed, messed up men you've had the misfortune of meeting - they don't need to change their ways - they need to be locked away.

Answer 3

I agree with a lot of the posts. It's not just guys that lie a lot, women are scandalous too. It just depends on the person and their morals. Some people don't have them (so it seems). Some people are self-centered and selfish, they love themselves too much to care about being honest and truthful, they just want what they want and play a good hand at it if they get anyone to marry them. But it doesn't last long. No matter how many hearts they break, they'll fall face forward in the end. You'll just be too busy moving on and enjoying life to look back and laugh.

Answer 4

I hear you sister. I have been in three relationships like you have described. The first one was a complete dog. Couldn't trust him as far as I could throw him. The other two were just pathological liars. I am attractive, smart, funny and make men take double takes when I walk into a room. (Not tooting my own horn) The point is that I rush into relationships. I didn't give myself a chance to really know someone. Not that knowing them any better will keep them from lying.
I feel if I was at a better place in my life and felt better about myself inside I would have made better choices.
Yes. women cheat just as much as men. Usually they have a reason. Unhappy in the relationship they are in. Feeling unattractive or to get even. Men cheat sometimes for the same reason. Their sex life at home isn't the greatest. Maybe they are feeling badly and some Chicky comes along showing them affection and interest in them. Maybe just boredom. Who knows.

Answer 5

Here's a better question to my fellow females; why do you ALLOW men to treat you badly? Why do you BELIEVE the garbage they tell you? Why do you act as if you cannot LIVE WITHOUT these bums? Why don't you RESPECT yourselves and not allow men to treat you like dirt?

You need to get smart. Be friends and get to know someone very well, that takes time. If they don't want to be friends first, that tells you what they're after. Most men are dogs, that's why you choose carefully, smartly and slowly. In the meantime, get an education, do something with your life, be independant and then you will find you won't want a man. Make them prove themselve to you or leave them in the dust. Life is short, why waste it on dogs?

Answer 6

hun, yes guys do that but just remember that some women do that as well heck my stepmother did that to my father in-law just because the other guy had alot of money. that is all she cares about and she is so wrong for being like that. my father had cheated on my mom when i was 16 yrs old and i saw the pain she went through and she cried at night all the time until i told her that he was a loser and she didn't need him anymore and she told me that i was right.

Answer 7

Like all women all they say "BLAH BLAH BLAH, LA LA LA, UTTAH UTTAH UTTAH" What about women. You know women all ways act like their all ways the innocent ones. The big bad Guys is all ways picking on the small defenseless women when that's surely not the case. Like when the woman wants us to get them some thing at lets say a restaurant, but they want to stay home, because they are to tired. We get them some thing we think what they would like, but no the order is all ways wrong of course, because we pick it out for them. "Oh this is not what I wanted. your so stupid, Da Da Da Blah Blah Blah" It is all ways the same case with you women. All ways complaining Gosh!!!

Answer 8

most men are insecure of themselves they feel that they have to lie to woman to please them so they are lying to themselves.Aslong as you are yourself and honest you will suceed in the relationship you choose. Love is a great thing but you cant have lies and love at the same time.Stay strong there are some good men left.

Answer 9

Which guy are you talking about. It's not about guys or gays or gals it depends on the person. Everyone lie at least once in a lifetime except who cannot speak.

Answer 10

Ya know what. I've been cheated on by almost every girl i've loved. I have never cheated. Girls cheat more. they just dont care when its them. and act like its the end of the world if it happens to them. stop your crying. bet youve cheated too.