Family & Relationships - 27 July 2006

I am dating someone who has been single for his whole life basically he's traveled and was engaged i was married 9 years.
He has been gone for 6 monthes and is comming home soon. While he is here he wants to see his friend and his wife and kids the deal is we are engaged and I have to kids. He wants to see these other people like it the priority. Reason I feel this is we are suppose to "just him and I" go on 1 week vacation somewere and he even asked me to get a passport "just in case " so we are not limited ,.....now 4 days later ke thinks he wants to just stay the week at my house and that be the vacation? I live in my house all the time and that to me as a couple is not a romantic vacation ...the problem is I feel like I'm not important enough to spent time with as vacation. I think he has been single so long that he do not truly understand what a relationship is? You don't put friends or anything or anyone before your fiancee and her kids after being gone that long? any advice?

2006-07-27 04:02:29 · 2 answers · asked by vcaring 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

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wedding announcements?

I'm getting married by a Justice of the Peace on August 19th. I would like to let my friends and family know that we "finally" did it, what is the proper ettiqute for sending out this type of announcement. We're not going to have a reception or anything until next year, (if at all) but I still want everyone to know. (And hopefully send cash! :-) > LOL

2006-07-27 04:02:25 · 8 answers · asked by Ms Pepsi 3 in Weddings

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When you have a wedding, is it normal for the bridal party to pay for their own dresses?

2006-07-27 04:01:40 · 27 answers · asked by L_Lou79 2 in Weddings

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Why do guys tell their girlfriends when another girl likes them? Guys opinions, too please.?

I just wonder why guys tell their girlfriends when another girl wants to date them. Is it to make thier gf's jealous, or is it to warn them that if they don't be good to them, they'll leave? Just curious........

2006-07-27 04:00:25 · 30 answers · asked by Littlemissy 4 in Singles & Dating

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Is this guy mentally challenged?

I think my sister's boyfriend has a mental problem. This guy came here from Milwaukee 2 months ago. He has taken over my sisters house to the point that the kids can't eat dinner until he has his first. And if anyone touches anything that he bought he argues with my sister. For instance she washed her hands with his shampoo after using the bathroom and he threatened to move out because she didn't respect his things. He hides things like ashtrays, dish liquid, toilet paper etc. He is 5' tall and wieghes about 130 lbs. Does he have the short man syndrome?

2006-07-27 03:59:52 · 4 answers · asked by katherine t 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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More PMS info needed for emotional power.?

We get back together and she loves me 9 months straight now. When I talk to my GF about us and a marraige relationship, while she's pms-ing, she says its just because she feels sorry for me. She will not budge on her feelings. While she's going through that period, She wants to love me as a friend. This happens every month at the same time,,, week before her period. When she's not in that period, she's making plans on marraige and selling homes and being one, and how much better I am then most men she knows. She loves me so much. Can it be that drastic of a mood change>?

2006-07-27 03:59:34 · 6 answers · asked by Terry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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how do i get a guy to like me?

how do i get a guy to like me?i have very low self asteem and i think that im ugly and just plain stupid and i blame my self for not being able to find a truethful guy.any guy that does date me only dates me to get to someone or im the only thing thatll date them.all i really want is a realationship thatll last a while.im 14 but i still want to find that guy that ill stay with for longer than 4 months.

2006-07-27 03:59:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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Are you clean?

2006-07-27 03:59:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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Who all thinks that there should be an age limit in here?

It seems a lot of little kids are on here trying to answer and ask questions...i find it hilarious. i'm asking who else does?!

2006-07-27 03:58:49 · 33 answers · asked by Kari 2 in Singles & Dating

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why don't you see any fat kids getting put up for adoption or their pictures posted on websites?

i know there are many fat kids that get adopted but i never see them or hear about them.
when you tell someone that helping, adopting, fostering a fat kid i always hear that it is crazy.
i see them get teased, bullied, made to look goofy in movies with their clothing, etc., i think i would be able to help them. are there any careers, jobs out there?

2006-07-27 03:58:17 · 2 answers · asked by jackeyodom 1 in Family

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do todays men,(black men) still want monogamy, or even serious relationships!?

2006-07-27 03:58:02 · 11 answers · asked by justme 2 in Singles & Dating

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Is it normal that I'm 15 and never had a boyfriend?

Its not like I'm scared of getting a boyfriend, and its not that I'm really ugly, and uglier girls get boyfriends, but why can't I? and please, please, God forgive me if someone comes up with an answer like "your not ready" because I really am.

2006-07-27 03:57:43 · 29 answers · asked by Dooosh 2 in Singles & Dating

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what is the best age for a woman to get married?

I was watching a tv show and was wondering what age is the most common for a woman to get married.

2006-07-27 03:57:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

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One for the ladies? i have been married for a year and i wanna sleep with more ladies , is this normal ?

or as am a bit rich and a have a nice machine. pic shown.

Ladies please real comments are apprecitaed?

2006-07-27 03:57:21 · 19 answers · asked by ZONGO 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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Is there a way to find out public information (marriage)...?

for Boston?? Is there an online free public records sight?? Thanks.

2006-07-27 03:57:21 · 2 answers · asked by dlgrl=me 5 in Marriage & Divorce

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i think my mate is a sex addicted what can i do to stop him from wanting our females?

2006-07-27 03:56:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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seeing a Question on here made me think. men dont understand childbirth like women dont understand testicles.?

seriously, my girlfriend doesnt have any respect for the fact that forcibly kicking a man in his testes is a pain no one should be forced to endure, rapists dont count. for a few moments nothing happens, and then it feels as though they are stuck in a vice which gets tighter and tighter, and simultaneously someone is brutaly stabbing you in the abdomen with a kitchen knife. now girls you may have seen a kick in the playground and the guy gets up after a few minutes. a good kick thats on target will make you spasm in agony for hours. i know this from experience. IT HURTS!

so all that said and done. is there a way i can make her understand the pain? now youve heard my story does it make you think twice about busting someone in the balls?

2006-07-27 03:56:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating