We get back together and she loves me 9 months straight now. When I talk to my GF about us and a marraige relationship, while she's pms-ing, she says its just because she feels sorry for me. She will not budge on her feelings. While she's going through that period, She wants to love me as a friend. This happens every month at the same time,,, week before her period. When she's not in that period, she's making plans on marraige and selling homes and being one, and how much better I am then most men she knows. She loves me so much. Can it be that drastic of a mood change>?
2006-07-27 03:59:34 · 6 answers · asked by Terry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes. She may not even realize this is what is wrong with her. She needs to go to her doctor and explain what she does during that time, there is medication to help with this.
2006-07-27 04:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mood changes from pms can be very drastic, but the one thing I can say about them is that they are only true feeling that someone has, but just overly dramatized. There have been times that when my kids scream all day long that I just want to sit in a corner and cry when I am PMS'ing and then I sit there and think what on earth is wrong with me, why do I want to cry, this is nothing new. Sure I can't stand all the screaming but I just reacted to it more dramatically. I can usually look at my PMS more rationally and hold it back, but if you have one that just can't help herself, I don't know what to tell you. You certainly can't say "look I know you have pms problems get some drugs to help it", no matter how you try to polish up that sentance she will be irrate. The only thing I can say it that maybe you can say to her "honey, I hate seeing you so upset maybe others go through this, you should find out if there is something out there that can help", and this sentence would have to be said at the right time. Plus find out her true feeling because some problem is there, she is just hiding behind the pms tag.
2006-07-27 04:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just refusing to censor herself and hurting you because she feels like it.
Do you really want to live like this?
More importantly, do you want a woman who behaves this way to mother your children? Every time she has PMS, she's going to tell her child that she never really wanted him, that he was a mistake, that he's good for nothing, etc., etc....
Do yourself a favor and leave this girl before it's too late. Or, if you feel like subjecting yourself to her bad behavior, have a vasectomy so you don't put a kid through it.
2006-07-27 05:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll discover better ideas from the source. My suggestion is to leave her on my own, do not respond to her hateful comments, and enable the comments merely roll off your lower back. understand in this time she is better emotional and bigger actual aggrivated so take what she says with a grain of salt and do not be so mushy your self. "What motives PMS? The motives of PMS aren't any further sparkling. that is suitable to the replacing hormones in the course of the menstrual cycle. some women persons ought to correctly be affected better than others with suggestions from replacing hormone stages in the course of the menstrual cycle. pressure and emotional issues do no longer look to reason PMS, yet they can make it worse. diagnosis of PMS is frequently in accordance on your indicators, at the same time as they happen, and how a lot they impact your existence. What are the indicators of PMS? PMS many times includes both actual and emotional indicators. basic indicators are: zits breast swelling and tenderness feeling drained having difficulty sound asleep disillusioned abdomen, bloating, constipation, or diarrhea headache or backache urge for foodstuff differences or foodstuff cravings joint or muscle soreness difficulty concentrating or remembering pressure, irritability, mood swings, or crying spells pressure or melancholy indicators determination from one lady to a special. in case you imagine you've PMS, save music of your indicators for some months. you should use a calendar to position in writing the indicators you've each day. also be conscious how undesirable the indicators are. in case you bypass to the physician on your PMS, take this record with you. How basic is PMS? Estimates of the percentage of girls persons plagued with suggestions from PMS determination widely. in accordance to the yank college of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (ACOG), a minimum of 80 5 % of menstruating women persons have a minimum of one PMS symptom as area of their month-to-month cycle. maximum of those women persons have indicators that are rather uncomplicated and do not choose medical care. some women persons (about 3 to eight % of menstruating women persons) have a better intense variety of PMS, said as Premenstrual Dysphoric ailment (PMDD). See the question, "what's Premenstrual Dysphoric ailment (PMDD)?" below for better ideas. PMS takes position better many times in women those who: are between their previous due 20s and early 40s have a minimum of one baby have a relations historic past of melancholy have a previous medical historic past of both postpartum melancholy or a mood ailment "
2016-11-26 02:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by sittloh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only advice I can give, Is marry her before or after her PMS time.
2006-07-27 04:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strike while the iron is hot!!!! Elope after her very next period.
2006-07-27 04:16:37 · answer #6 · answered by jp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋