2006-07-27 04:03:23 · 18 answers · asked by pepsicola 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we both really love each other, but he works long hours, and hes always really tired. i wanna make more time to be with him and make him feel special
2006-07-27 04:16:28 · update #1
Well, assuming he loves you and actually fancies you take a look at his lifestyle.
Is he working shifts? They knacker your libido pretty quickly.
What about diet? Living off fry-ups can leave you feeling pretty rough too.
Assuming he does a 9-5 job with no great stress and again making the assumption that you bathe more than once a month and that he is not in fact 83 years old or anything then you have to use a dietary supplement.
He could go and get a blood test incidentally, check his hormone levels but there are enough herbal preparations to rekindle his desire.
Two worth mentioning are: horny goat weed and the other oat tincture.
Holland and Barret probably stock both.
2006-07-27 04:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Ian H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep on experimenting and find out what he likes best.
I was going to say go down on him, but stop just before he comes, so that he really needs to finish off.... but I thought that you would think that men are very shallow.
Yes we ARE that shallow!
Edit (after additional details): that's really sweet, and should work - everyone (men and women) love to feel special. How about getting a hot bath ready for him when he comes home, so that he can start relaxing straight away, and follow that up with a sensuous massage?
2006-07-27 04:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by nige_but_dim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am constantly amazed that there are men out there who use the "N" word. (Not THAT N word, NO is the one I mean) I don't think I could possibly ever be that tired, unless I was DEAD. Look for an underlying cause. If that doesn't work, find out what his fantasies are and play on those. Don't ask, just surprise him. Good luck.
2006-07-27 05:42:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appetite for life = Appetite for sex, trust me.
For example, if he likes football let him play football. If he's an artist or a musician, encourage him to loose himself in his art when he wants to. Trust me, out of me n my mates the ones with higher sex drives are those that feel better about themselves and get to endulge more in their non-sexual passions.
Also, variety in how you look can help spark fresh interest, I find good food and good beer always help, and the woman being honest and foward about her fantasies can be very sexy.
2006-07-27 04:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by AFD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to put him in the mood. try different things like lapdancing, oysters, soft porn films, dressing up, exploring the house while making the music or even the back garden, car, woods (careful though none are legal), failing that get it on with a girlfriend while he watches( never fails! )
2006-07-27 04:11:28 · answer #5 · answered by david c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every few minutes tease him eg. play with down there for five mins or so while watching tv..... After about an hour he'll be chasing you round the house
2006-07-27 04:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by toots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you find out let me know!!
If he's just tired, nice dinner, some wine and no tv!
2006-07-27 04:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by zara c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to assume you know what he likes.....indulge him. Strip for him, masturbate in front of him ( just letting him watch), give him a bath and wash him paying close attention to certain parts......your only limitation is your imagination.
2006-07-27 04:08:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every guy wants just sex, so show him love first! He’ll land in you’re bad for shore if he thinks you’re in love with him.
2006-07-27 04:09:22 · answer #9 · answered by CrHasher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make your self more aggressive and initiate the excitement try fruit, jello,whip cream.toys and so on.
2006-07-27 04:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by polockpete40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋