Last night, my boyfriend went out with his guy friends. Well this morning, I found a girls number in his phone. When I asked him about it, he said his friend's phone had died and he saved her number for him? Do I believe him? Also, while he was supposed to be at the bar with them, he had missed calls from them on his phone and he said they were just screwing around and caling him from the bar. I have no idea what to believe and I really need help. We have been together 3 years and I just am really confused. Please help!
2006-07-27 03:43:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Does he have a history of misleading you?
Is he giving off signs he's bored with you?
The signs you gave are fishy, but don't necessarily add up to anything. He may actually have flirted with another girl at a bar. Why you may prefer he not flirt with anyone other than you, flirting is harmless as long as it doesn't go too far.
So he may have flirted during the dark of the night, but may have woken up in the morning wishing he hadn't.
I'd suggest you make sure you are doing your part to keep the relationship fresh. Then watch how he reacts.
If you are suspicious of him, he may be more likely to eventually cheat on you. People tend to act the way you expect them to act.
2006-07-27 03:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by jplrvflyer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a liar. He stored a phone number for a friend in his phone??? Why not just get a piece of paper and have the girl write it down and the friend then has it? As far as the friends calling his cell in the bar....not buying that one either. Leave it alone for now and just start watching him really close. Dont let him think your on to him at all....when he is asleep check his phone for recieved and dialed calls and start jotting down numbers. He will hang himself eventually.
2006-07-27 03:52:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all right there. You know it too. He has a story for everything. Do you really believe him and his friends were calling each other as a joke ? Come on. And what a coincidence that he would have some girls # in his phone the same night. Its all right there and you know it.
2006-07-27 03:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you ever had reason before this to not trust him? If this was the first time in the 3 years you've been together that you've felt he was being untrustworthy, then i'd have to tell you to believe him. Don't ruin the trust that you've taken the time to build with him
In my experience, if he was screwing around on you, he wouldn't make it so easy to get caught.
2006-07-27 04:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by married2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cool off. wait a while, and then check his phone again after a couple weeks and see if hes been calling that number or if shes been callin him. it might be nothing, but u have a right to know if it is something
2006-07-27 03:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by blackqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is telling the truth. You should believe everything he says. His story sounds totally legit to me. By the way, I am a millionaire and I was wondering if you wanted to go to Hawaii with me next week.
2006-07-27 04:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by yamaha bassman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either believe him, or follow him around for a little while to see if he is lying or not. remember, it takes years of dedication to build trust, and only suspicion to break it.
2006-07-27 03:47:53 · answer #7 · answered by piopo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't help you I was not there this is where trust comes into play. the ball is in your hands you are the only one who knows if YOU can trust him or not
2006-07-27 03:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by mr. Bob 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trusted him, you wouldn't be looking through his cell phone.
2006-07-27 03:55:13 · answer #9 · answered by tear streaked angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him a question you know the answer to (but he doesn`t know you know) and if he lies about it then you know he is unfaithful.
2006-07-27 03:49:39 · answer #10 · answered by highschoolmusicalfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋