Family & Relationships - 21 July 2006

Do you go for looks or personality 1st? What is some things a girl has to have for you to be interested? What turns you on bout a girl?

2006-07-21 04:01:55 · 17 answers · asked by Volleyball15 2 in Singles & Dating

i love my girlfriend very very much and cant seem to live without her. but recently i am having a notion that our relationship could be more sexual than romantic. i am too embarrassed to talk to her about it, because i dont really know how she'd react to this.i am very confused and dont know how to deal with it. please help.

2006-07-21 04:01:17 · 2 answers · asked by loving_u_4ever_n_always 1 in Singles & Dating

steaks, as I end up picking the brats and she buys the steaks. Maybe we should switch up who buys, huh? Do you think she's going to divorce me over these petty fights?

2006-07-21 04:00:55 · 30 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

For me there are women that I will see instantly and be drawn to right away. So here is the second part of my question. When I see you and I feel like I need to meet this woman, wouldn't that mean internally there would be some things that we have in common or maybe were alike in some ways? Granted I'm talking about a true attraction, butterflies and everything not the usual BS. Seeing a woman on some level for who she is vs what she looks like is sexy and it's my goal. So can attraction, and a strong vibe constitute to us having similarites even though we just met, and do you enjoy it when a guy can talk about that after meeting you for what 10 minutes? All I need to do is find things that are special about myself and talk about it, and hopefully it pertains to you. I know I've asked a few questions so thank you for your patience, and I'd love your input.

2006-07-21 04:00:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they looks different and walk diferent from normal people,

2006-07-21 04:00:40 · 1 answers · asked by stephen c 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex-grlfriend wants me back.... but she's married and pregnant... her husband is in iraq...all three of us are in the military..and im leaving again to go to iraq the second time around in mid august...
she's been goin to my place.. and hanging out..and more... She tells me that she loves me and all I can do is look at her innocent eyes... and she's so sorry that she made the mistake of marrying him..when she knows im her soulmate... he got her pregnant before leaving for iraq..and i feel as though he has been abusing her..verbally and threatning her all he time... But her husband now...is the guy that she cheated on me with... and that was made us break up... she says she's wants to move away with me when i come back from iraq in feb.. but he comes back in november..when his baby boy is born... i hate this and it's killing me.. i don'tknow what to do...i mean I love her...and will always will. that's just the kind of person that i am... please help me..

2006-07-21 04:00:34 · 15 answers · asked by richard b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My kids are 11 and 13. I have had a serious illness for 12 years that is usually fatal. Thankfully I've been in good health with no major problems, but that could change at any time, or I could never get any worse. Are the kids too young to know, or should I tell them of my illness?

2006-07-21 03:59:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-07-21 03:59:21 · 1 answers · asked by pureessence 2 in Singles & Dating

details

2006-07-21 03:59:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At first, she has given her 'signals' to intend to get closer to you but when she was 'discovered' and teased, she suddenly became cold towards you.

2006-07-21 03:59:05 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i like this guy at my church and i think he likes me but not for sure. our eyes meet alot and i can always catch him staring at me (in a good way) are there any other signs besides him coming up and telling me. like eye contact???

2006-07-21 03:59:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im not really good with words and expressing my thoughts. Today I will be having lunch with my ex girlfriend and im still in love with. Any advice or tips on how to tell her that im still crazy for her and she's all I think about? Also I get emotional around her sometimes, is this bad too?

2006-07-21 03:59:00 · 8 answers · asked by Acknutz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was wrong when I went outside of my marriage. I've been going to counseling to address my issues and things are getting better. But here is the problem. My wife doesn't want to go to counseling and we haven't had sex in over a year. Has she not forgiven me? How long does a person hold out on sex after a situation like this? I understand she needs time, but isn't it time for us to address our marriage? I'm getting help, why doesn't she want to?

2006-07-21 03:58:42 · 11 answers · asked by TexasBoy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do people think that having more money will automatically make them happier with their lives? I'm not talking about people who have nothing at all. I mean people who think that they will be 50% happier if they make $300,000 a year instead of $200,000. I have never seen it work that way.

I notice lately that my wealthiest friends are the most miserable, in fact. And I mean wealthy--over a million in assets, and no longer working cos they can live on their investments. These people are all married to spouses they don't enjoy being with, but they won't divorce because they don't want to split up their assets. So, instead they sit around and complain about how nothing makes them happy anymore. This applies to male and female friends equally. When I say, "Have you thought about leaving?" the answer is identical--"And let HIM (or HER) get my stuff?? Hell, no!" What do you say to people who can't see that their obsession with their stuff is chaining them to an unhappy life?

2006-07-21 03:58:39 · 10 answers · asked by homebuyer 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im not really good with words and expressing my thoughts. Today I will be having lunch with my ex girlfriend and im still in love with. Any advice or tips on how to tell her that im still crazy for her and she's all I think about? Also I get emotional around her sometimes, is this bad too?

2006-07-21 03:58:26 · 8 answers · asked by Acknutz 2 in Singles & Dating

I just dated this incredible girl and we had nothing but an awesome time together. She used to date this guy (who was also her first boyfriend) who was controlling and verbally abusive. They broke up about 3-4 times over. Her friends and parents hate him. She would tell me how she hated the things he did and how she couldn't be his friend. Now we've broken up and they're friends, however she isn't dating him nor really hanging out with him. She's basically shut me out of her life, although she really wanted to be friends and still hang out. I still get the feeling she really misses me (she has to!) but we haven't talked in almost 2 weeks (except brief text message).

I want to ask her if she wants to go to coffee or get cheesecake. If she starts acting like she doesn't want to Im gonna tell her "I just wanna be your friend, im not picking up on you. Im (kinda?) seeing someone anyway". I know it sounds bad but I know jealousy is a strong emotion. Would it work? (Details are good)

2006-07-21 03:57:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 03:57:53 · 17 answers · asked by wllmsdywn 1 in Singles & Dating

HE TALKS TO THEM ONLINE ALL THE TIME.HE SAID ITS JUST A FANTASY OF HISTO BE WITH A TRANNY. WE HARDLY EVER HAVE SEX ANYMORE. BUT HE TREATS ME WITH LOVE AND RESPECT.WE RARELY IF EVER FIGHT. I KNOW HE LOVES ME BUT WHY WOULD HE ADVERTISE HIS SELF AS SINGLE AND LOOKING FOR A FUNCTIONAL T-GIRL. IVE SEEN HIS PROFILES ON SOME OF THE SITES HES JOINED.AND HE SAYS HE WANTS TO HOOK UP WITH A T-GIRL THATS DISCREET.WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO?

2006-07-21 03:57:28 · 7 answers · asked by CONFUSED 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she hot and another culture and race

2006-07-21 03:57:25 · 13 answers · asked by fumifada 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married at the wedding bells chapel.
Please share any pictures or comments about them.
Any Info...

Help please

2006-07-21 03:57:19 · 2 answers · asked by rice_tobi 1 in Weddings

My girlfriendş birthday is for 2 days.I promissed her Lindsay Lohans album SPEAK.I need just one more song named SPEAK,so,please if u have,send me on mail(ljubba_from_neverland@yah... she will be dissapointed.please!

2006-07-21 03:57:00 · 1 answers · asked by Ljubba 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance owns his own business and I worked for him for about a year doing his secraterial and book keeping, after awhile us working together was causing us problems with our relationship. Now I work for a diffrent company and I process mortgages, My fiance wants me to come back to work for him which I want to put I also am very happy with my job, If I dont he will have to hire a new secratery and it makes me alittle nervous because she will be working from the office in our home , alone with my fiance, he is very professional and has had women work for him before,What should I do???

2006-07-21 03:55:54 · 62 answers · asked by italianprincess_fl 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

He is largely supported by the family. But also has a small business that is largely run by his father. The father may not be there forver. On the medical front he takes medicine and is normal otherwise.

He is partially dependent for finances.

he is very complaint to medicine. Takes it regulraly.

another point... This is India.... where marraiges have to be arranged... one has to find a bride...but at the same time he is keen on this as he feels he needs a companion and deserves to get married like others!!!

2006-07-21 03:55:51 · 7 answers · asked by Monsh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing a guy lately who is quite shy, and a few months back got pretty messed up by an ex. When I started seeing him he warned me that because of that he's wary of relationships so will be timid.
Things seemed to be going great until recently. He's been acting as if he's lost interest, I asked him if that was the case and he said no just shy. But now its almost like avoidence.
If this is him just being shy should I give him some space and then try again in a few days or call him on it?
Does it even seem like that's what it is to all of you?

2006-07-21 03:55:42 · 6 answers · asked by attila 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 03:54:52 · 3 answers · asked by pup_needs_love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

... since nobody can be perfect.

2006-07-21 03:53:56 · 33 answers · asked by Belindita 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-21 03:53:23 · 22 answers · asked by pup_needs_love 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-21 03:53:15 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, so there is this guy I have been in love with for 11 years&whenever I see him I clam up& pretend i haven't seen him &kick myself afterwards.he is extremely shy& once we have spoken2 each other for an hr or so he tells me that he wished he didnt have2 be drunk2 work up the courage to talk to me.We were seeing eachother for a couple of months when we first met &he ended it&was very reclusive and stuff.we kinda hooked up again for a few days a year later, then it was over again.i eventually married someone else. now that marriage is over.I saw my this guy at the beginning of this year &spoke2him.he told me that he had also gotten married. then it was time4 me2 leave& said that it was really nice talking2me& cornered my sister.he told her the reason he wasfunny with me all those yrs ago was because his dad had bn a heroin addict 4 20yrs& didnt know how to tell me.he also wanted me2know he was now divorced.what do i do?

2006-07-21 03:52:57 · 12 answers · asked by lucy b 1 in Singles & Dating

Im seeing this guy who already has a girlfriend, but he still wants to be with me. His girlfriend lives in another state, while me and him live in the same state. When we're together we have such a great time and we're soooo comfortable with eachother, but I sometimes feel like what I'm doing is wrong. What should I do?

2006-07-21 03:51:50 · 17 answers · asked by sassy gurl 1 in Singles & Dating