For me there are women that I will see instantly and be drawn to right away. So here is the second part of my question. When I see you and I feel like I need to meet this woman, wouldn't that mean internally there would be some things that we have in common or maybe were alike in some ways? Granted I'm talking about a true attraction, butterflies and everything not the usual BS. Seeing a woman on some level for who she is vs what she looks like is sexy and it's my goal. So can attraction, and a strong vibe constitute to us having similarites even though we just met, and do you enjoy it when a guy can talk about that after meeting you for what 10 minutes? All I need to do is find things that are special about myself and talk about it, and hopefully it pertains to you. I know I've asked a few questions so thank you for your patience, and I'd love your input.
2006-07-21 04:00:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow thanks for the responses, this was a tough question to ask I had to word it right but thanks. I'm catching on fast
2006-07-21 04:10:35 · update #1
Make her laugh. If you can do that then your on a roll already and dont talk about yourself unless she asks you. Ask her all the questions. Buy her a drink and offer to sit and talk then you can get to know her. But dont talk for 30 mins only about 10 and get her number if you like her and call her for a drink then the next date dinner. You start off slow and few mins here and htere and build it up. That way yall dont talk about everything when you first meet, you dont want to tell her your life story if you end up on the 2 date that you are diggin her. So use my advise.
2006-07-21 04:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a surprise that guys like you still exist! Most guys get attracted to the opposite sex mainly because of the physical appearance. But since you talk about being attracted to a woman in a different level, on trying to figure out who she is, rather than how she looks, well it's kinda amazing. if you show this attitude towards a girl, and she gets to notice it, you're obviously in the right path. Some women likes guys who can handle themselves very well and can communicate very well. But this is just one thing that you should not do, you should avoid making too much praise on yourself. Even if your intentions are to make her see what you are, sometimes it gets misinderstood. The best thing to do is try to make light conversations, and try to be a little humurous, not too serious, too much talk about you and what you do and what you want can eventually drive away the girl. Let her discover who and what you are by herself, and sometimes it is best that you have a conversation on the "Q and A" basis. meaning you ask, she answer, she ask and you answer and have some in between punchlines... I guess this stuffs works better. Cause both of you are trying to open up and introduce yourself to each other at the same time. If you think that you have some similarities with the girl, you will eventually find it out during the first minutes of your conversation. sometimes you'll be amazed that you almost liked the same things as she does, and that's it... all you need is... good luck!
2006-07-21 04:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, I'd go with the artsy, intellectual looknig guy. preferably red hair, but black is good too, green or blue eyes. Wide-rimmed glasses, Converse Chuck taylors, a movie shirt, clean-cut look but not too metrosexual or preppy. A hint of a 5-o'clock shadow. Nice smile. Not over-whelmingly gorgous, but attractive in an average way. Not too tall or slender. It would grab my attention if he was laughing and laid-back. Yeah, that's pretty much my type-if I had a choice.
2016-03-16 03:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love a man with confidence; a guy who communicates well is such a turn on to me!
I believe in chemistry and finding out that you have things in common with the other person does add to the attraction.
You sound like a pretty cool dude; congratulations to the woman in your life!
2006-07-21 04:05:51 · answer #4 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see a nice bottle of "cologne" lets say and there's actually poison there that can make you very sick if you sniff it, it doesn't mean it's good for you. There are alot of attractive people, "different strokes for different folks" but I can't fall for guy who approaches me because he finds me hot. I'd like him to notice other details about me, important ones due to the fact we all get old some day. Those are not butterflies you feel, those are horny-mones.
2006-07-21 04:07:52 · answer #5 · answered by thisisme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would say that could constitute as something we have in common. Having a similar attraction deffinately counts. Yeah, Guys who can be so comfortable with themselves, that they're not showing off and are genuine that can hold a conversation, DEFFINATELY get my number. ^_^ Great question. Best of luck.
2006-07-21 04:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me i despise when a man comes up to me and tells me how beautiful i am etc........boring...........i also cant stand when the content of their conversation is about what they all own, or how much money they make, i dont appreciate being treated as someone who is superficial. What really grabs my attention is when men have real converstions with me, also i enjoy when he is incredibly funny or entertaining
2006-07-21 04:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by kitiara2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the one thing that alot of us like is that you stay comitted and don't act all weird!stay the way you are. obviously they like you. so don't change
2006-07-21 04:05:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋