Family & Relationships - 18 July 2006

no more details..they don't seem to take any advice on how to get out of their situation. $5k per month in bills..they own a home...but no jobs... I feel horrible and don't want to get pulled into their blackhole...

2006-07-18 10:34:43 · 11 answers · asked by RUNINTLKT 5 in Family

I don't know what to say(email) to this guy that i'm trying to get to know better. My friend set us up on a date but it hasn't happend yet and I'm really shy.

2006-07-18 10:34:40 · 5 answers · asked by boombox 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 10:34:20 · 5 answers · asked by Dee 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i have a boyfriend that wants to kiss me next date but i want to save that first kiss for the one who proposes to me how to tell him no?its just hard to say no for me please help me .thank u!

2006-07-18 10:34:11 · 4 answers · asked by Helena White 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Or een worse home selling or buying experience, as Iam in the process of moving and it is becomeing a nightmare.

2006-07-18 10:33:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wallet,purse,checked cell phone numbers,or just snooped even if you didnt suspect them of any wrong doing...

2006-07-18 10:33:41 · 27 answers · asked by Yakuza 7 in Singles & Dating

is it just me or,
your in love with a striper..

2006-07-18 10:33:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is there anything wrong wit a 15 year old girl having a 21 year old boyfriend

2006-07-18 10:32:51 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is for the father in case of the mother leaves with the baby and we are not married

2006-07-18 10:32:35 · 5 answers · asked by john 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I REALLY WANT TO ASK HER OUT

2006-07-18 10:31:15 · 5 answers · asked by klandard 1 in Singles & Dating

It's like bleeding inside but you can't even shed a single tear. If only we can cry and then feel better afterwards but no, we just have to keep it all inside.

2006-07-18 10:30:40 · 6 answers · asked by *♥£öVe§♥* 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm dating someone who rings my cell phone nite and day demanding I drop everything and come to his house so he can have his way when I decline he tries to make me feel like i'm not a good friend. He want as far as saying that when he calls demanding I should take heed.
Personnaly I think that it's to much control for one man to have over any women, so he got dump real quick

Was I wrong for dumpping him and turning off my cell?

I feel like this is a preview of an abusive person.

2006-07-18 10:30:12 · 17 answers · asked by butterfly 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 10:30:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

http://louise1975.buzznet.com/user/main/

2006-07-18 10:27:31 · 15 answers · asked by louise 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok I't goes like this...
I babysitt my two little brothers all the time. My dad is a parts manager, and my Mom is going to collage for her masterates degree. I'm supposed to be the resposible one but it never turns out that way.
When ever I babysitt someone is always yelling, crying, or caring on. To make matters worse my youngest brother has autism. It's just really frustrating and I don't know what to do. I want to be a better person and treet them nicer but I always end up yelling at them and treating them like crap.
My question is, is there any tips on being nice, friendleyer, and a more toleant person, also any activities to do while baby sitting (nothing that makes a mess) Please don't respond to this question unless you have a really good answer!

2006-07-18 10:27:31 · 13 answers · asked by Paul O 2 in Family

Why do people have on night stands? It is aboslutly foul. What if they end up with some STD? And ladies, what if you end pregnant, (and don't even mention condoms because life happens and it could break or something.) what are you going to tell your child when he/she starts asking about his/her father? What are you going to tell your family when they ask you who impregnated you?
HOnestly, is a one night stand worth geting preganat, or getting an STD?

2006-07-18 10:27:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 10:27:21 · 17 answers · asked by Jell~O 1 in Singles & Dating

Yes he does "misplace things" and sneak out when possible....He has been with us about 3 years. He has had counseling (we) with the school. He keeps promising he is going to do better and never does. He is very lazy!!We stay on him to clean his room and after himself.Right after he first moved in with us he was suspended from school.His dad told him to do some chores. He wanted to do other things.He started out and I grabbed his arm to keep him from going out (I had told him not to leave).He draws back as if he is going to hit me with his fist.Boy did all hell break loose then.The school and family has tried everything to help him!!He just doesn't have a care in the world.We even caught him smoking in BED!!A BIG NO!!NO!!He take things from his brother without asking,he's been in our room going throuh our things. I'm so tired of going throuh this hell!!I've only scratched the surface with details of what goes on here!!His dad does "try" to get through to him...but idontthinkanthingwill

2006-07-18 10:25:31 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

We met a year ago! Just getting ready to reach our one year mark! The first 3 months were like testing the water. The problem is that lately we argue more then get along. Love is not a question. We are very in love, but for the last 3 months it seems very easy to argue with each other and harder to remember that we love each other....and worse that all pre-marriage kids are here for the summer. Trying not to spoil it for them. We fight over stupid stuff. we cant seem to do anything much and agree.....we just fight. Still deeply in love with him....and know its returned. Is it air of change or on its way out the door? HIS ANSWER? He has looked all his life to find me and the kind of love that he feels, not willing to give up!

2006-07-18 10:24:30 · 8 answers · asked by wondering about this 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I live in Alaska and we are getting married next fall in North Dakota. We don't have a lot of money to make frequent trips back to plan things so we will be doing most of the planning through phone, mail, email, etc. We want to have a nice wedding without having to spend a ton. Any suggestions on not getting ripped off since we may have to book certain things like reception hall/ dj / flowers etc without the benefit of sitting down face to face with the respective business owners????

Also, any tips on centerpieces/decorations??? We don't want a bunch of stuff that we will have to find storage for or have to try to bring back on the plane with us.

2006-07-18 10:24:16 · 8 answers · asked by legends_chick 3 in Weddings

I just don't like the taste of myself or her (usually). I've had oral sex with some women, and it doesn't taste good or bad, and I like how she responds. But, most women taste/smell bad to me, so I dread oral sex with them. I'm sure I don't always taste/smell great either.
Is oral sex a big criteria for most women?

2006-07-18 10:24:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ladies and men please give your first gut response or tell me if you have had a similar experience.My boyfriend of ten months left three days ago to spend some time with his two year old daughter who lives in another state! He doesnt see her very often. However he is staying in the guest room in his baby moms home. It made me very uncomfortable, coupled with the fact that he was texting me from her home instead of calling. He kept teeling me to have faith in him etc... etc...I broke up with him because it is too much for me to handle. I feel like I was disrespected and my feelings were neglected.Was I wrong???????What do you think?????

2006-07-18 10:22:57 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i would really love to make friends,to chat with but the problem is how to get there

2006-07-18 10:22:42 · 11 answers · asked by cassara 1 in Friends

I didn't call my girl for a week because she doesn't call me when she says she will, just because of that she started dating another guy because she thought that i broke up with her. I din't break up with her but if she's gonna call me only when she wants to then i can play that game too, and of course she didn't like it and she went out and dated another guy when she swear to love and only me. what am i suppost to believe and how can i still talk to her when she doesn't even know what she wants. she says she still loves me alot but she's dating that guy because she didn't wanted to be alone. i'm sorry but im not a toy thats he can just play with anytime she wants to. is a week enough time to decide that the other person dont love ya. I mean i was just doing what she does to me, but of course it's done to her so she reacts that way. I wouldn't do that to anybody just because i have respect for people and i know that we all have feelings. was she wrong or was I?

2006-07-18 10:22:33 · 7 answers · asked by lckyboy25 1 in Singles & Dating

I like some dude in my summer school class and we have been friends for a long time. I just want to know what is a good way to tell him that can not hurt our friendship.

2006-07-18 10:22:25 · 6 answers · asked by a_cute_girl 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend has been married for six years and just found out her husband has put them 66.000 dollars in debt and has stolen money from her and she thought she knew him and trusted him, do you really know the person your with?

2006-07-18 10:20:12 · 13 answers · asked by earthygirl 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

like out on the street or at a party or something?

well now you can fight back at those bastards!

in order to do this you have to keep a camera phone or a digital camera with you at all times.

the next time someone makes sexual moves or vulgar comments to you, turn around and take a picture of him.

then post it on this site:http://www.hollabacknyc.blogspot.com/

when i did it i felt a lot better.

2006-07-18 10:19:36 · 6 answers · asked by Watermelon Punch 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-18 10:19:16 · 11 answers · asked by SUPERMAN 2 in Family

We shared a house with my one of my husbands friends. (Which I don't think is much of a friend) The friend found the house and signed the lease. He asked us if we wanted to share it with him. At the time we were looking for a house to rent. So we decided to move in with him. We were to split all the bills. He always had problems with his half. He was hardly at home ever. But his son was always there. We watched him every day almost. So the friend dicides he wants to move in with his girlfriend. He had three more months left on his lease. So he moved out, and left his son there with us so he could finish the last month of school. Then he moved his son out. We moved out because the land lord was already looking for someone to rent the house.
He didn't get the house rented out the last month so since the friend signed a least and broke it he owed the last months rent. Now he wants us to help him pay it. My husband has agreed to pay our half. If it was up to me I would..

2006-07-18 10:18:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-18 10:18:18 · 30 answers · asked by Unicorn 2 in Singles & Dating