I'm dating someone who rings my cell phone nite and day demanding I drop everything and come to his house so he can have his way when I decline he tries to make me feel like i'm not a good friend. He want as far as saying that when he calls demanding I should take heed.
Personnaly I think that it's to much control for one man to have over any women, so he got dump real quick
Was I wrong for dumpping him and turning off my cell?
I feel like this is a preview of an abusive person.
2006-07-18 10:30:12 · 17 answers · asked by butterfly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope your were right honey!! You should always follow your first mind anyway when it comes to those type of situations. It does seem like he has some underlying issues going on, I'm glad that you got out of that situation immediately becuase it could have gotten worse. Also watch out for yourself and be careful. Also let me just add a "bravo" you deserve it, I wish more women could do the same!!!
2006-07-18 10:34:58 · answer #1 · answered by Chelly Belly 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
STAY AWAY from that Creep. Someone that Controlling will end up hurting you. That sounds like the start of an Abusive relationship if I've ever heard one. NO MATTER what he says do not take him back he's NEVER gonna change even if he does for a little while it would only be a matter of time before he went right back to his old ways.
2006-07-18 17:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u did very well... abusive relationships are at all no fun. they only hurt u and sometimes the ones that u love the most.. so congratulations to u ^^ two thumbs up he is a jerk and very controlling and besides who would want to be a friend of a controlling jerk so once again ^^
2006-07-18 17:37:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not just no. HELLLLL NAW! No one shoould let themselves be treated like that. Someone trying to guilt you into things you don't want to do? Forget it. There's waaaaaay too many fish in the sea. That person is not your friend at all. Don't feel guilty for sticking up for yourself. You did good.
2006-07-18 17:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by bakum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very proud of you girl ... drop that fool like a bad habit. That is definitely the sign of someone with control/ abusive issues.
*Hooray for you!!!!
2006-07-18 17:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by Star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did ya ever see the movie, "sleeping with the enemy"?...I had to change my cell phone number for a very similar reason. I think you are correct in getting away from him...
2006-07-18 17:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by jonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right. He was being really controling and that might not have been the end- that can't have been a good situation for you.
2006-07-18 17:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were absolutely right and congratulations. You tried talking to him and he became threatening. Definitely not worth your time. I wish more women would heed those kinds of warnings.
2006-07-18 17:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by ^i^ Angel ^i^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel bad, you should probably consider a restraining order...or at the very least tell your family, friends, and employer about what is going on, in case you wind up missing or worse.
2006-07-18 17:33:44 · answer #9 · answered by tella stella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing...That guy sounded crazy.
I really feel that if you would have stayed in that situation it could have ended very VERY badly!
2006-07-18 17:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋