Family & Relationships - 15 July 2006

I've known my best friend for a few years now. ever since I was little, I've known I was gay, but he isn't. This is an issue. Do I tell him. Should I try to convince him anyway? Is it posssible to get a straight man to fall in love with you, and if so, then how do I do it. I can't even breathe when I'm around this guy. He is perfect. There is another problem. He's in a relationship. I don't want to hurt her, but I think I make her jealous. I've wanted to die for a while now, and I'm afraid he might give me the wrong answer. Is it possible for a man to be straight and still be in love with a guy?? What the **** do I do?????!!!!!!!!!

2006-07-15 07:39:55 · 4 answers · asked by urbania05 2 in Friends

for your partner or their pet name for you?

2006-07-15 07:38:07 · 29 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Singles & Dating

What is a good place to have a honeymoon within the United States?

2006-07-15 07:37:36 · 21 answers · asked by anonymous29 2 in Weddings

My b/f keeps making plans with me, and then many times makes a last minute cancellation. It seems to always happen on a fri nite, and then I find he's at his favorite wateringhole with his guys. He and his friends say he loves me, but what does this action really say? What should I do?

2006-07-15 07:37:30 · 31 answers · asked by jazzzame 4 in Singles & Dating

What does it mean when a bloke is always telling you he wants to marry you and have your baby jokingly? I mean it seems like he's joking about it, but he's said so many times that now I'm beginning to think he actually means it.

2006-07-15 07:36:15 · 7 answers · asked by RadiantGal 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been with her for 2 years and weve had our ups and downs. Currently we arent together but I thought we would end up together like we always do, but then she told me she slept w/2 guys in the same weekend. I knew them both. I wept in front of students attending my school that i didnt know when she told me.
its messed up i know, and i guess i just need a different perspective on the scenario. I find it hard to examine inside the box than outside. I'd appreciate any feedback :)

2006-07-15 07:36:04 · 7 answers · asked by fearlesspride 2 in Singles & Dating

recently me and my boyfriend of about a year broke up for a week or so but now he wants to get back together. I am more than likely going to take him back but we have a lot to talk about, like our future and other stuff like that. I don't know what to do about how I should start any conversations and I want to talk to him somewhere private. Where would be the best place to do so?

2006-07-15 07:35:59 · 28 answers · asked by Maria 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex who i split up with becus of my stressful situation and i dumped him (i just wasnt me) is now saying he doesnt know whether he wnats me or in what way saying he is confused and feels safe at the distance he is now because he feels he cant have his heart torn ag. still finds me v. attractive and fancies me and says he cares for me he says when he thinks about what i did last month he doesnt feel he loves me but when he takes that month away he loves me more than anything in the world. i asked him if he wanted to cutit off completely and he sed we know so much about each other he could never do that. he sed he wants to foget the month of hell but doesnt know whether he can at . i told him i want to work at the relationship and he said he camt at the moment. he saying he is scared of this happening again and that i have driven him to a place where he wont get hurt he feels safe there. hes got stress at work. he saying he cant offer me what i wnat at the moment. have i lost him?

2006-07-15 07:35:50 · 10 answers · asked by lola f 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-15 07:35:44 · 19 answers · asked by jenny lou 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband pays child support. If one of the woman he pays child support to were to take him back to court would they look at my pay too and come up with a new figure or would the judge just consider his income.

2006-07-15 07:35:26 · 14 answers · asked by LIZA 2 in Marriage & Divorce

that doesnt happen to me very often

2006-07-15 07:33:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Pick the 3 that mean most to you
if you had to pick any of these and list them in order, which would you choose and why? WHAT would you wish for?

1. World Peace
2. Filthy Rich
3. Eternal Life
4. True Love/Soul mates (personally, I don't think this exists)
5. A trip to the Superbowl
6. A trip to Paris (or Middle Earth) with your True Love/Soul/mate
7. Infinite Wisdom
* you can make one up too.

2006-07-15 07:31:32 · 31 answers · asked by girl next door 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 30, have a postgrad (though that's isn't a guarentee of intelligence and certainly not common sense! I know some dumb people with doctorates)

Intelligence/wit is extremely attractive in a woman, and I find that 25 or there about the age I'm attracted to, though if I met someone younger with awareness and presence and subtlety that would be extremely attractive

2006-07-15 07:29:46 · 3 answers · asked by Hoolahoop 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 07:29:12 · 8 answers · asked by Stephanie S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why is evrey body into sex ?I mean its not the only thing out thier in the world!!

2006-07-15 07:28:56 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father is 57 years old. He recently got surgery in his foot and he cant walk no more. which means he cant work either. he started to get disability from the government, but he only gets $800. Its not enought for him while he is taking care of my mother. My mother is sick as wel. the doctors approved her disability but the Governemt brings up the point that If she had worked and paid taxes, she would be eligible for disability money. so please tell me If there is anything we could do? I mean can My father take retirement money and disability money at the same time? cause that is what i heard. and how can my mother be eligible for her disiability money?

2006-07-15 07:28:47 · 5 answers · asked by Sheeno 2 in Family

when you are in a relationship with a person, do you like them for their looks or their personality?

2006-07-15 07:28:38 · 14 answers · asked by nervous 1 in Singles & Dating

with my wife to let her know how much she means to me

2006-07-15 07:26:55 · 6 answers · asked by canibus 2 in Marriage & Divorce

type of dick do u prefer...?

2006-07-15 07:25:56 · 25 answers · asked by the 6th knight 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 07:25:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Your top three things please. Im really interested!!

2006-07-15 07:25:32 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-07-15 07:23:13 · 8 answers · asked by charmboy06 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine is defenitely Brad Pitt, ahh, so fine in TROY.

2006-07-15 07:23:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-07-15 07:23:02 · 7 answers · asked by thoughtsofastranger 3 in Singles & Dating

I have two wonderful daughters from a previous marrage. When divorced I sowed a lot of wild oats and have lost contact from the women. One from Nigeria, one from Hong Kong and one from Malaysia. Do I haveany more children? Would love to find out.

2006-07-15 07:22:56 · 16 answers · asked by bwadsp 5 in Family

2006-07-15 07:22:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-07-15 07:22:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

than never to have loved at all?

is this true? how can it be better to lose the one you love than never have loved at all? wouldn't it be better NOT to love? then there would be no pain.

2006-07-15 07:22:05 · 14 answers · asked by Jan 6 in Singles & Dating

My greatest High School memory, was unfortunately my first time having sex, its not like sex was the only exciting thing in my life, its just that the person I did it with was also a virgin and is now the man i've been dating for nearly 3 yrs.

2006-07-15 07:21:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like your mom, girlfriend, boyfriend ect..i mean like really out of the blue just wallop them.

2006-07-15 07:21:43 · 13 answers · asked by soulsista 4 in Family