What do I do??? I fell in love with my best friend.?

Question

I've known my best friend for a few years now. ever since I was little, I've known I was gay, but he isn't. This is an issue. Do I tell him. Should I try to convince him anyway? Is it posssible to get a straight man to fall in love with you, and if so, then how do I do it. I can't even breathe when I'm around this guy. He is perfect. There is another problem. He's in a relationship. I don't want to hurt her, but I think I make her jealous. I've wanted to die for a while now, and I'm afraid he might give me the wrong answer. Is it possible for a man to be straight and still be in love with a guy?? What the **** do I do?????!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

If a man is in love with another man, he is not straight then. So the answer is no.

If there is a chance that you may succeed in making him love you, I suggest you make yourself love a woman. It's easier on comparison. See the odds?

Answer 2

If you know he's straight, I wouldn't advise approaching him. He's more likely to feel uncomfortable than to return the feelings. Something you don't say is if your friend knows that you're gay, already. If he doesn't, then it's time to let that part out and then give him time to get used to that. See what that reaction is. If he already knows that you're gay, you'll have to accept that he's not and work past the attraction.
See a counselor about your depression, it doesn't go away on it's own. I've been there.
Good luck and best wishes to you.

Answer 3

First of all check if he is straight or not. Check very carefully.
I think you already know he is not gay.
It is not possible to convince a straight guy to get in a relationship with another guy...or would you get in a relationship with a woman?
Then think about this
does it worth to lose a friendship telling to him something that he may not be interested in?

Answer 4

Ask him about it and see what he says to you